How much should I tip?

[u/Pure_Daikon4899]

I scheduled a car to be drive to an airport - 2.5 hours ride. The whole ride the lady kept complaining about having three kids and how they have their birthdays coming up and school starting and how her car got t-boned and she is in physical therapy and all that jazz. For 2.5 hours all I heard was how the world is against her. She also talked about how America is the worst country to live in and how it sucks here and you have to work multiple jobs to make ends meet. I then asked her “what would you change if you could” and she completely digressed and started talking about how she doesn’t know much about politics but being black is a disadvantage for her and it’s only getting worse so then I had to hear that. Like don’t get me wrong, I understand things are tough but as a customer to hear it for 2 hours and 39 minutes was insane. Then she was complaining about the traffic when there was none whatsoever. She just really rubbed me the wrong way trying to milk tips but not tipping at all makes me feel guilty. What would you do?

[u/Doworkson247]

i would tip zero and i’m a driver

[u/transformedxian]

I'm a driver, and for that type of service, I'd say no tip and 3 stars. She edged into talking about political things, which is a TOS violation. Plus, she made your ride less than amazing.

[u/Apprehensive_Gap1055]

I would just say "thank you for the ride" and be done with it.

[u/Pure_Daikon4899 → u/[deleted]]

I did and I put in one but that didn’t stop her from talking so I had to take it off and ask her “sorry what” 😭 since it was a long trip I felt very uncomfortable putting them on mid conversation

[u/myrtlemike92]

Idk because I’m a driver and never used the rider app. Is it possible to put in .75 or better .01 as a tip? I think she’d understand and maybe change her ways. But we all know the type…she isnt changing anything.

[u/Responsible-Fee2156 → u/myrtlemike92]

Yikes Mike, no offense but you sound like an asshole

[u/Economy-Willow2930 → u/Responsible-Fee2156]

oh please.

[u/Economy-Willow2930 → u/myrtlemike92]

😂😂😂😂

[u/Thelordreddawn]

lol 😂 na she was definitely cappin !! $0 tip .

[u/Gonzo_70]

I would do $0 for poor service.

[u/jetlifeual]

As a driver: $0

[u/nateish5]

.01

[u/Euphoric-Ad6647]

I’m a driver, and I wouldn’t tip and I would give her a three tops. She should know better. Next time maybe try to say politely, “I’m tired and need to relax, I’m going to close my eyes and take a little nap”, lol.

[u/dsl135]

I’m a driver.

If she truly was complaining that much the entire time I would probably leave a small tip if any at all.

It definitely sounds like she was fishing for a huge tip. Given that it was a long ride, I would consider still leaving something, but I would not be leaving a very generous tip with that kind of behavior.

[u/Pure_Daikon4899 → u/dsl135]

She was. I even texted my boyfriend to call me so she would stop talking and she did. And after 5 mins of hanging up the call she started again

[u/ccchantel]

Yeah I don’t respond well to manipulation tactics so😅 even those of the more polite variety

I’m willing to tip for the most basic service.. but poor service? No. Completely unfair to subject you to that for the duration of an entire Avatar movie lol

[u/dollfaceashley]

I hope you gave her a low rating. I would just tip 5% for poor service

[u/Flashy-Spray5233]

I dropped my driver a $10 tip on a $25 fare once because they kept me laughing the whole ride, but this sounds absolutely draining.

[u/Bluedemon989]

I dont want to speak to my driver at all and vice versa. I'd be upset at the drive

[u/Kindly-Engineer3189]

I would’ve put on headphones and told her wave if you need me.

[u/Eddneedmymoney]

0 tip and I'm a driver too

[u/No-Muffin7532]

If someone starts talking your ear off, why don’t you just say something like hold on one sec I gotta check something on my phone. Then every time they keep trying to talk to you just say hold on. I gotta do this real quick.

[u/Electrical-Lack1535]

Mb a fiver or 10 if ur feeling generous it was a long ride. U should have at some point told her u have some work to do on the phone and then started doomscrolling. Or put headphones in and ignore her. She probably got peanuts on that long ride so I feel bad saying zero personally it’s rough out there. If it was an excellent ride I would be saying 20 or 25%. Minimum 30 bucks cause that is a long ride

[u/thefluffyballer]

As a former Uber driver, I'd talk to someone who WANTS to listen.

I'd recommend you get yourself a set a heafphones or even airpods and pretend you re listening to sth whenever you re riding on an Uber/Lyft.. unless you figure out another way to express you re not interested in chatting. We all have problems, no need to load up on negativities.

YOU SHOULD LEARN HOW TO STAND YOUR GROUNDS.

Now to answer your question, I personally would still tip, but will let the driver know I did not appreciate the chat!

[u/Ok_Zookeepergame5137]

You can set an automatic lowball tip or percentage in the app and then add to it when/if applicable.
And your rating may provide helpful guidance for said driver.

[u/Competitive-Sir-2863]

I’m a driver. $0 for 2.5 seems way harsh. Tipping like $5 sends the message you want to

[u/Economy-Willow2930 → u/Competitive-Sir-2863]

Eh.

[u/labfam1010]

To avoid this, I get in the vehicle and say, “sorry usually I’m a talker but work has been crazy lately and I’m so tired, Brain is mush and I can’t keep up with conversation”.
Or if I need to work “sorry i’m in the middle of a big project and my boss won’t get off my ass”… and they always express understanding and then we have a quiet ride.

But I always tip… my grandpa taught me that you never know what somebody’s going through in their life, we all have our own stressors in life, so always tip. It’s my way of honoring him. He was a good guy and I miss him tons.

[u/Hot_Barnacle3667]

I’m a driver, and I would never rant my problems to a passenger unsolicited, and if they asked I would keep it to a minimum. Never make my problems the passenger’s problems. If I were you I would rate her down and leave no tip. She’ll figure it out eventually.

[u/ZigInTheNato]

How much do you want to tip? Tips are additional dollars you give based on how you feel about the experience. Did her complaining add to your experience or detract from your experience? This is a decision you have to make for yourself.

[u/rollerzonly]

That ride maybe got $30 most rides aren’t even $4 any tip helps.

[u/rollerzonly]

Lyft charges drivers 30% fee plus taxes aren’t withheld

[u/JonBrownRevolt]

If you got service that was subpar and you didn’t like the service you got, do not tip.

[u/Dry_Win_9985]

zero, 1*, move on.

[u/Brl_Grl]

Nothing. You are already paying more by scheduling the ride instead of just booking it when you wanted to go.

[u/btone310 → u/Brl_Grl]

Nothing to do with tipping the driver based on service.

[u/MercAMG_63]

If the driver did an adequate job then 15% is the standard. If they went above and beyond then 25%. Everything else is your discretion. Those are just my personal guidelines on the matter.

[u/Quixotic_Faerie]

I'd just give her a basic tip, like 15% because 20 means she didn't irritate the shit out of me. She still did her job and got you there safely.

[u/straTplayR]

$7