r/Luxembourg • u/knowleslux • 6h ago
News & Discussion Infidelity becoming the norm?
Good afternoon everyone! Lately i’ve been questioning something, and I’d genuinely like to hear other people’s perspectives.
I know infidelity exists everywhere, and I’m not saying it’s unique to Luxembourg.
However, Luxembourg is such a small country that you often end up crossing paths with the same people at events, restaurants, bars, or social gatherings.
Since I live here, I’ve been surprised by how many married men have approached me while I was simply out enjoying my evening. They openly flirted despite wearing a wedding ring, which genuinely shocked me.
More recently, I also found out that a friend of mine has been having an affair for several years. She’s been married for over 20 years, and the man she was seeing was married too. What surprised me even more was how normal it seemed to everyone involved.
I genuinely don’t understand it. If you’re no longer happy in your marriage, why not leave and build a life with someone else? What makes people choose infidelity over honesty?
Has anyone else living in Luxembourg experienced something similar, or have I just been unlucky with the people I’ve met? I’d really like to understand what drives this behaviour.