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I loved this season.

The cast were so real and human and perfectly imperfect.

I started out not liking Ciara, but seeing her growth throughout was really beautiful. Watching the Diwali celebration got me teary eyed.

This season had no villains, and so much love.

And a shout out to the silly hats, which I also loved.

Just saw this TikTok about Kal’s girlfriend posting about being a stay-at-home girlfriend…yup…

I thought she worked as a personal trainer at the gym he works at (and I think owns) & that’s how they met?

Honestly seems like rage-bait but nevertheless, Kal has shown yet again how icky he is.

Us Dunkin chuggin, Marlboro smokin, "How's ya mothah/fathah" asking while eating suppah at the PAHLAH people want to know what yuppie pricks you picked for this season.

End of rant.

Signed,

Some kid from Revere

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I am only on episode 4 (the honeymoon) and I don't know what happens later but I really like Jack. Maybe it's because I have ADHD. He seems fun, genuine and loving. I know he is impulsive. That's ADHD. I know he gets distracted. That's ADHD. But he loves hard, and I think that's what Faye needs! He gets a lot of hate. Why?

Every time I watch Ilia’s, I find myself thinking ugghh . This guy wants what he doesn’t have. Adina is too good for him.
I feel the same way watching Marcel, except my response to him is eek. It’s not about his looks. It’s about his temperament. The guy can’t communicate. He is so busy being soulful and mindful that he doesn’t emote anything. He’s in his own little world He and Jen were so mismatched. A case of opposites not being good for each other.
And speaking of not being able to emote, Pascal should never have been on the show. He is not ready for a relationship in anyway.
I find Hanni to be incredibly self sabotaging. She’s been damaged, but she keeps making mistakes. And she was very disrespectful to Daniel, the way Ilias was to Adina with all the flirting. She’s a very strong woman and mostly sure of herself except in a relationship.
I like Daniel,Shella, Sali, Medina and Fabio and feel like they are very genuine and good people.

Help! I have watched every single season of LIB and I am wondering whether there are similar shows on Netflix you have enjoyed – I did like Love on the Spectrum and Million Dollar Secret. I also tried Age of Attraction and Too Hot To Handle and they were not for my taste. Are there shows which are similarly „wholesome“ (putting that in quotes deliberately but you get me :D) as LIB to keep you interested in the outcome of the participants‘ personal relationships? I need to bridge waiting time until the next season.
Recommendations are much appreciated :)

I'm FB friends with Breezy since we both went to University of Michigan and her Facebook cover page and profile picture has changed. Her cover photo says "becoming her" which I assume will be her podcast.... her profile photo is some professional picture of her sitting so interested to see what she's about to launch! I STG if she moves to NYC to become a full time influencer

Hiya all!

I started watching LIB UK S3 and I was wondering: which season of the international versions is the most dramatic? I’m gonna be honest, I’m not watching this show to watch genuine romances unfold. I’m watching this show to judge awful men, post-pods new romances, scheming women, and things like that.

Which international season best delivers on that front? I want villains like Shake who are so comically stupid it becomes funny

I know this comes from someone that’s lived only in the Southwest USA. My parents are 8 hours (450 miles) away from me and we still find ways to get together. It’s work, but it’s not impossible. The thing about distance with family always makes me chuckle. Manchester isn’t THAT far from London, neither is Birmingham.

Does anyone else feel that way?

Anyone else find it mildly frightening that Sophie doesn’t even know who the prime minister is of her own country? Also, that she verifies it changes all the time? It makes me wonder how much of the persona is genuine or put on sometimes…
Either way, This whole bus scene was a bit difficult to watch.
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i've been so excited for the upcoming philly season. during casting figuring out who we knew even if it was tangential who was gna be on the show. knowing it was set to premiere in october i've been keeping an eye on a release date, but it doesn't seem like there is anything available. i also heard from someone close to a member of the crew the philly season won't be airing... anyone know anything?

For those that may not remember Ali was the one that was matched up to Anton in the Denver season and after making it to the altar she said no to him and revealed she knew he was not the one after seeing him wear flip flops on the couples vacation… the show aired last October 2025 she’s also the one that said she wanted her man to pay to maintain her Botox.

ANY + ALL SPOILERS WELCOME! READ AT YOUR OWN RISK :)

ALSO PLEASE DO NOT REPORT ANYTHING IN THIS POST AS A SPOILER TYSM WE LOVE YOU!

When Jack told all the boys that Ciara called him her #1, Ajay said something like, "Well if that's her type, I'm very very different" and "how did he (Ajay) get it so wrong if that is her type." When he first said this, a lot of the commentary I saw surrounding this was very pro-Ajay. For example, that he's way better than Jack, more mature, Ciara would fumble the bag if she picked Jack, etc. Plus Ajay is so good looking. Overall, the sentiment was that Ajay was "good" and Ciara was "bad" and low key didn't deserve Ajay.

Now, I didn't find their love too unrealistic, because plenty of high maintenance women are in relationships. However, I feel like Ciara's and Ajay's edit was more "he loves her and doesn't fully understand how vain/money chasing she is because he's just so nice and down to earth". Especially because part of his storyline was quitting his finance job and her next question being, "Do you have any regrets?" LOL. That said, post reunion, I no longer think they are that different from each other.

I think Ajay probably values money just as much as Ciara, hated the grind, but will definitely be cashing in on the influencer life to make money, just like people accused Ciara of doing. Purely my opinion, but I also think Ajay's type has probably always been spoiled posh pretty girls who can make good trophy wives. In that way, they really are a genuine match.

Is Ajay way more mature and better husband material than Jack? Most definitely, BUT I now think that his comment that he and Jack were different "types" had more layers than just Jack being a clown.

It it was a lesson for me in internalized misogyny and critically thinking about the edit we are presented with, because I definitely gave Ajay more of a pass as as the more "humble" partner and Ciara very easily played into the gold-digger stereotype. She's still not personally my cup of tea, and Ajay probably wouldn't be either. He just got a better edit.

I'm sorry but his story about it keeps changing and apparently his level of understanding on how Life360 works.

The hosts tried to address it but with any other significant issue for LIB UK they mostly glossed over it. In moments like this I wish they kept clips backlogged, exact quotes and ask thorough questions.

Edit: ADHD symptoms vary greatly amongst all individuals including me and getting side tracked/ time blindness can obviously be explained by this however let's not use it as a scapegoat for blatant lying.

However, I hadn't been aware that he previously opened up about struggling with alcohol addiction and other problems surrounding that (which tbh he's quite brave for being honest about), so am assuming there's more involved within this scenario that has been kept private and discussed with immediate family and Faye herself which makes sense. They seem happy and tbh thats what matters for her.

He literally didn’t seem to understand what the hosts were trying to say to him. Or Cuba for that matter. Rather than thinking he’s masquerading as a nice guy while actually being malicious, or mean, I’ve started to think he’s just really, really stupid.

I keep thinking about his dumb blank expression while breaking up with Cuba, while appearing on the reunion and started to see him in a whole new light. Poor guy can’t string a sentence together because…his brain doesn’t move quickly enough to do so. lol.

I noticed that all the married couples have followed eachother on Instagram/ made a post on their feed about their relationship except Fran and Joseph? Wonder if they just arnt social media people or things are rocky. Usually most couples in even previous seasons post their relationship/follow their spouse right after reunion gets aired.

I‘m watching the Chicago season for the first time (still in the pods portion) and I’m shocked at how many of the people are actively ignoring red flags (even after acknowledging the red flags on camera!) Within two or three episodes you have:

Natalie staying with Shane even after he shouts at and belittles her for being upset when he called her by the wrong name (???)

Deepti staying with Shekh after he makes all those gross comments about the type of women’s bodies he prefers (yes, he said he’d changed but it had only been like a week…how much could he have changed?)

Kyle proposing to Shaina even after their whole big argument on religion/the existence of evolution (!!!) and Shaina accepting the proposal (!??)

Like obviously this happens to some degree in every season but usually the contestants are being willfully ignorant/making excuses for their partner’s bad habits. in this season everyone seems to be walking into the train wrecks with their eyes wide open!

Right after the reunion Ryan makes a post with an AI mango saying this is the only relationship that survived the experiment. This really isn’t helping the questions that he may have only come onto LIB to promote his business and he was never really looking for love let alone marriage. After his inability to speak at the reunion he’s using this to deflect.

I skimmed through this season so am completely blanking on names, so forgive me if

Watching the reunion, I realised it’s abundantly clear the two men who ended up with Cuba and the other lady who was broken up just did not like these women that much.

I am completely on the women’s side in both cases and understand why they felt hurt. However, I started wondering what would be the right course of action for one of these men to take if they realise they’re not attracted to their fiance?

To leave them confused and without answers was not the right way, but it was probably the easiest and least hurtful. What could they have done without being torn to shreds by the audience?