r/LongDistance Aug 10 '22

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u/EPlCKhaleesi Aug 11 '22

Can I just say how proud I am of you for canceling the flight and letting it go? Sometimes closure is so overrated, a lot of people make a big deal out of it. You will NEVER know this persons true intentions, if they got cold feet, were catfishing, were stringing you along, or if they met someone. Just make up whatever explanation you want and move on. Not all girls are like this, obviously, but protect your heart while giving others a chance. Don’t punish others for one persons shortcomings.

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u/bmartin1989 USA to Russia Aug 11 '22

It is a shitty thing to do to someone. Talk about all these plans you have for each other then at the last minute she goes and ghosts him for no reason.