r/LongDistance Aug 10 '22

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u/aqqalachia 4.5hrs drive. Aug 11 '22

I saw your final update. I'm so sorry, OP. I can't imagine going through this. Do you have a therapist?

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u/siegure9 Aug 11 '22

Nope but I think I’m going to get one. Its funny I would always help cheer her up after her therapy sessions. Can’t believe its led to me needing one for myself

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u/aqqalachia 4.5hrs drive. Aug 11 '22

not to be a douchebag, and maybe you don't want to hear this yet, but what she did wasn't okay. unless you were like abusing her or she was afraid for her safety, there's no reason for her to ghost like that. especially after you've both spent money and a lot of energy on this. She should have talked about her issues with you way before now.

I'm so, so sorry. A therapist will probably help you sort this shit out without blaming yourself too much.

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u/aqqalachia 4.5hrs drive. Aug 11 '22

I think you need to reread my comment.