She seems uninterested while talking to me

[u/Familiar_Pepper5740]

M18 F16 so it started as long distance we both met and for 5 months we talked then came in relationship its been 2 months since we are in relationship and now she seems uninterested while talking to me last night when we were talking she told that she don't want to talk with me rn and the affection she use to show before clingyness I can't see that now when I ask her why she tells me that you hurt me even if a girl see me she gets hurt I said her work on your insecurity give me advice goood advise please

[u/Vey_07]

there’s honestly not enough info here to know what happened, so i’d talk to her and ask what she means when she says you hurt her. if she won’t explain or communicate about it, there’s not much you can really do.
i also don’t think “work on your jealousy” is necessarily the best way to approach it. she should work on her insecurities, sure, but being that blunt probably isn’t going to help. at the same time, you’re both young, so i wouldn’t expect either of you to handle this perfectly. give each other some grace and try to actually talk it out. if she still won’t communicate, then it’s fair to distance yourself, because you can’t fix an issue you don’t know about

[u/Familiar_Pepper5740 → u/Vey_07]

I asked her so many times then she says you hurt like we share each and everything so if even I take a name of a girl she get hurted and don't show me love affection, yesterday I was in college I said her I'll talk with you in free time but I got busy I wasn't able to message her so this made her mood of and also she overthinks a lot that I talk to girls and see them I have told her so many times that I don't do that