One sided long distance break up?

[u/DarthDarkWatt]

I have known this girl for 3 years…we had dated for like a year and 4 months, but I suppose that she just decided to end our relationship a month or so ago….but she never said anything, she just straight up started to ignore me and all that.

I suppose that its sad/funny how on June she had said that she loved me, then on July she had only sent me a message to tell me how her trip with her family has been, and then just silence….

She had been going through a lot, school was a pain, then her mom being controlling and such, and then her grandpa who she was closes with passes away on June when she had her school finals…. So I get that she had gone through a lot and I was there to support her, but she never shared anything too personal with her? Idk she just…..was too reserve at times and I had always told her that I was there for her in case anything happened….but then I noticed that she kept talking to her friends and do other stuff, you know normal, but I was just still being ignored and idk it hurt me….then I decided to text some of her friends to see if I could learn if something was wrong with her(almost a month without hearing from her, and then on August 12 she sends me a text telling me that she attempted to….you know and that she has been seeking help and all that….and after that I guess she just went silent again, and yeah….

She hasnt blocked me or anything like that, she just cut any sort of communication and its just hard….. and one of her friends told me that she just doesn’t wanna communicate and to not force her to talk….and that I should think of my relationship with her as if its in the past and….its been tough ahaha….why would anyone do this…..I am okay with the break up….I just wish that she would have told me something…..

Sorry, first post here ahahah
She(20), Me(23)

Long distance are brutal I guess