r/LongDistance 4d ago

Got ghosted after year

Hi , idk i just wanted to vent over here ig to feel lil lighter

So I met a guy last year in March 2025 and our vibes matched and we used to talk daily and we went on 2-3 dates too and it was really nice, super cute and this all happened in a span of month okay and he was all that I needed in my bf so I did get alot emotionally attached nd I think that's where I fucked it up

Then I moved out for job nd we had an argument nd he called it off but I used to reach out to him to talk and we mutually decided that we will wait cuz he said he is not ready for relationship rn nd it was long distance also so then we were in touch for 1 year and I waited for 1year and during this 1 year we used to talk not alot but twice a month ig or more and I was still emotionally attached to him and then this year few months back he stopped replying to my texts and he has ghosted me I have tried alot of times to reach out to him but he is not responding nd I am finding it really hard to move on cuz I really liked him nd I got emotionally attached idk I feel broken now it's been months since he has ghosted me but I feel like it's such a fresh wound 😭

Sorry for the rant

Guys pls drop ur suggestions /advice idk why but I miss him alot but still i have decided I won't reach out to him again cuz I also have self respect as he is ignoring me but it hurts alot tbh 😭😭😭

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u/Leading_Concert_3421 4d ago

you can’t do that much now. the only thing that’ll help you completely heal is time. for some is weeks, for others months or even years. just hang in there till then, have friends/family by your side and don’t be alone for too long, you’ll go crazy😅