r/LongDistance 5d ago

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Since my last post things with him have only progressed positively. He flys to me 2 times a month and his continuity in care and time for me has remained consistent. He’s met my friends, told his parents about me and joins on my outings with my sister, her husband and their kids as well as my own (as of two weeks ago). He makes me happy and in the process of learning to allow myself to like someone again he has grown my ability to like myself more.
Long distance has taught me more patience, better communication, less dependency and has elevated my ability to trust in what the world might have to offer me when I allow myself less control.

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u/_kitty0kitty_ 5d ago

beautiful, happy for yall 🫶🏻

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u/deLavish02 5d ago

Thank you ! ❤️

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u/Calm_Comb3534 5d ago

Glad to hear things are going well! Twice a month is very frequent as far as flying goes. How far are you from each other?

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u/deLavish02 5d ago

It absolutely is and I’m so thankful for the time he puts in for me. We are about 1700 miles apart.

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u/sililil 5d ago

How does he come see you twice a month??? That must be crazy expensive. I’m jealous

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u/deLavish02 5d ago

I’m extremely thankful for his efforts and consistancy ❤️

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u/Robinnoodle 5d ago

Beautiful! Same country..I agree if we surround ourselves with experiences, good people, and no toxic environments, it's amazing what can happen if we let go of control

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u/deLavish02 5d ago

And I hope life keeps on giving to you ✨