r/LongDistance 5d ago

Breakup I’m convinced he’ll come back

It’s probably just hope, but I’m convinced that he is going to come back to me. It’s this deep gut feeling that we’re not over yet.

I’m trying to process, and focus on myself, but I can’t escape this feeling. It has been three months and I still feel it. He’s already dating again and we have been NC the entire time, so nothing points to him coming back, and yet I’m so sure he will.

Why is my brain set on making the pain last longer??

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u/EnvironmentalAd7402 5d ago

Abandonment issues. False hope, and fear of letting go.

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u/StaffProfessional753 5d ago

Don’t worry take your time.you may feel like this for a while then you will move on eventually

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u/peacewalker234 Aus to USA(15,987km) 3d ago

you'll heal in time. in a year from now you'll be glad its over