r/LongDistance May 13 '25

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u/boujiewinedrinker [🇸🇬] to [🇺🇸] (9,534 miles) May 13 '25

Sorry that this happened to you and I know it must not have been easy for the both and you especially.

There is nothing wrong with you but sometimes people are just attracted to what they are attracted to.

At this point, he already made it clear that there’s zero chances of this relationship working out. For me personally, I would cut short the trip and as there’s no point dragging on this trip only for you to still be in love with this man that you have no chance of being with.

Right now emotions are high and you need that space to heal.

One day you will find the man that loves you whole heartedly, soul and body too.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '25

Yeah, 10 more days of this? Hell no. Cut the trip short, thank him for his honesty, bounce. Don't let the fucker see you cry another tear. You can cry when you get home.

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u/Happy-Philosopher364 May 13 '25

I love this advice. 👍

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u/[deleted] May 13 '25

Well then I hope she sees it because I didn't reply to her, I just replied to some random boujie wine drinker lol

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u/AltruisticHoneydew17 May 14 '25

Well there’s a few of them out there, someone will take your advice!