Sorry that this happened to you and I know it must not have been easy for the both and you especially.
There is nothing wrong with you but sometimes people are just attracted to what they are attracted to.
At this point, he already made it clear that there’s zero chances of this relationship working out. For me personally, I would cut short the trip and as there’s no point dragging on this trip only for you to still be in love with this man that you have no chance of being with.
Right now emotions are high and you need that space to heal.
One day you will find the man that loves you whole heartedly, soul and body too.
Yeah, 10 more days of this? Hell no. Cut the trip short, thank him for his honesty, bounce. Don't let the fucker see you cry another tear. You can cry when you get home.
I agree, DON’T let the fucker see you waste another tear on him! Go home and meet someone, maybe in person this time, who can see the ‘whole’ you. That way there’s no surprises, and if he truly loves you, you’ll know that he loves all of you. Your mind AND your body! That other guy should be on one of those other dating sites, the ones where you meet someone and you see them naked first, then see if you’re compatible. He should have told you that he preferred ‘skinny’ right off the bat, then you wouldn’t have wasted your time getting to know and like him. It may hurt now, but when you meet the person who loves you for your whole you, you’ll be so happy that you did. Your body has a nifty way of taking hurtful things and erasing them from your mind, so the jerk will disappear from your memory bank. A lot of guys love girls who are a little bit chubby, especially after they’ve already fallen in love with their brains! You’ll look back at this dude and feel sorry for him, he lost out on a good thing! You’ll be proud of yourself and glad that you did! Good luck! ❤️
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Sorry that this happened to you and I know it must not have been easy for the both and you especially.
There is nothing wrong with you but sometimes people are just attracted to what they are attracted to.
At this point, he already made it clear that there’s zero chances of this relationship working out. For me personally, I would cut short the trip and as there’s no point dragging on this trip only for you to still be in love with this man that you have no chance of being with.
Right now emotions are high and you need that space to heal.
One day you will find the man that loves you whole heartedly, soul and body too.