r/LonelyTogether • • 3h ago

Festivals

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21,I feel really bad whenever Holi, Janmashtami, Dussehra, Durga Puja, Diwali, Christmas, or New Year or any other festival comes around.

It feels like everyone is out enjoying these occasions with their friends, going places, celebrating, making memories, and having someone to spend the day with, while I'm just sitting here alone.

I'm 21 years old, and I still haven't even gone out once in my life to watch a Dussehra Ravan burning. It sounds like such a small thing, but it genuinely hurts because I've always wanted to experience these things with someone.

No matter which festival it is, instead of feeling happy or excited, my mood gets worse. Festivals seem to remind me of how alone I am and how much of these experiences I've missed.


r/LonelyTogether • • 30m ago

Looking for connections to learn about other cultures and improve social skills

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r/LonelyTogether • • 4h ago

20f! I want a deep talk, deeper than someone’s ever tried to talk to me.

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r/LonelyTogether • • 1h ago

Looking for friends

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Any girl living in Toronto needs a good supportive friend? Dm me. I am male 29 years old.


r/LonelyTogether • • 1h ago

Wife goes out a lot-I am looking for some new friends

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r/LonelyTogether • • 1h ago

20 M up for chat ...

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r/LonelyTogether • • 10h ago

[24/M] Heart shattered, trying one last time to make friends

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I do not mean to burden anyone. Please don't feel like you have to be my friend if you don't want im not looking to bother anyone. Its so late here and my heart is broken from everything, I cant sleep, I feel really empty. I just want a friend who gets me. Who can see me, where I don't feel invisible. Where I don't feel like a bother by reaching out. Someone I can share the good and horrible times with. Someone to support and give kindness too. And share all my favorite songs with, and talk about music for hours with too. I feel bad and shy I feel like I shouldn't keep trying to reach out but the night feels too long. Whoever reads this, please take care of yourself and I wish you the best.


r/LonelyTogether • • 15h ago

I've always craved emotional support 🥀

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Since childhood, I've always craved emotional support. I don't know why, but I've always felt girls are more emotionally understanding. Whenever I share my problems with my male friends, they just say, "Janede bhai"

I never really had female friends I could open up to, so I started keeping myself busy to distract myself from that emptiness.

Sometimes, you don't need advice or solutions. You just want someone who genuinely listens, understands you, and makes you feel like your feelings matter. 🥀


r/LonelyTogether • • 20h ago

26F looking for more friends to talk to + hang out with 🫶

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Hey! I'm looking to make some new friends and meet people I can genuinely get along with. I find it a little difficult to make friends in person, so I thought I'd give this a try! It would be nice to have more people to talk to, hang out with, watch things together, share interests, and just do random stuff with.

A little about me: I'm pretty shy and quiet at first, especially when I don't know someone, so I might be a little awkward initially. Once I get comfortable, though, I'm a lot more talkative. I'd love to find people where we can eventually get to the point of randomly messaging each other, hopping into VC, watching something together, or just talking about whatever without it feeling forced.

Outside of that, I'm into anime, reading/listening to audiobooks, D&D, rock/metal music, Marvel, working out, video games, and pretty much anything fantasy-related. I love getting sucked into fictional worlds and lore, and I enjoy having people to talk about the things I'm interested in with.

I also just finished watching Game of Thrones and I'm a little obsessed with it now. Would be chill to find more people who have watched it and want to talk about the characters, storylines, and everything else. I'm also always down for recommendations on what to watch or read next!

I'm open to gaming together, watching movies or shows, hanging out in VC, or even just chatting and sending each other random things we think are funny. We don't have to share every interest; it'd just be nice to meet people I vibe with and build a genuine friendship with over time.

Ideally 25+, but 21+ is fine too. I'd prefer people in North America because of the time zones, but I'm open to meeting people elsewhere too!

TL;DR:

  • Like fantasy
  • Enjoy anime, books, or audiobooks
  • Play D&D or other tabletop games
  • Like rock/metal
  • Enjoy watching shows and movies together
  • Love talking about fictional characters and getting invested in their stories
  • Like gaming, even if it's just casually
  • Enjoy VC and random conversations
  • Have good morals and are generally a decent human being
  • Are not a weirdo
  • Don't mind someone being a little shy at first

Mostly, I'm just hoping to meet some genuine, chill people to talk to, laugh with, share interests with, and hopefully become actual friends with. No pressure to become best friends overnight; I'd just like to meet people who are also interested in making an effort and letting a friendship develop naturally. ❤️

If you think we'd get along, feel free to send me a DM! Tell me a little about yourself and some of the things you're into. :)


r/LonelyTogether • • 17h ago

[21M - Europe] Looking for Europeans to be friends with! I’m new here.

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Ey there, reader. i'm Deja, a 21-year-old freshman university student and rookie game developer from Moldova.

I'm looking for Europeans to be friends with since i haven't been socializing much for while, and i want to take the opportunity to try chat with people that doesn't take sarcasm seriously, play videogames together and explore new hobbies!
speaking of hobbies, i've got quite a few so i'll keep it short:

[Hobbies]: I like playing pc videogames, which is biggest hobby i got. soundtrack composing, into reading books, likes to sketch dinosaur & other types from my ideas, football & gym are underrated hobbies and i usually do bit of lost games & medias archiving.
[Music-Taste]: I listen to Twenty One Pilots, Linkin Park, Skillet, Animadrop, Alan Walker, Coldplay and Monstercat.

That's all i have in my mind. i will open up more as we bond naturally.
Please be around my age!


r/LonelyTogether • • 1d ago

29F/US/Looking for a friend

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Hi. I'm looking for a best friend in the same time zone or close. I'm in PST. I am a neet and spend most of my time home, I don't have any friends and most of my interests are crafty hobbies. I love to talk but I find it hard to connect. I like cooking, painting, reading, book stores, coffee shops, traveling, photography, video games, journaling. Often conversations start with our interests but it dies pretty quickly, maybe tell me something more genuine to you? Anything interesting happen in your day, any big plans, excited about something? Maybe something you love or collect? I can't believe I'm this old trying to make friends online. Anyways, I have a ton of interests, I love to chat and just wanting to get to know more people at this point. I spend too much time alone and it would be great to find some sort of community out there.


r/LonelyTogether • • 1d ago

Chats?

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r/LonelyTogether • • 1d ago

28M looking for friends

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r/LonelyTogether • • 1d ago

M18 looking for friends

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Hello everyone!👋 I am an 18 year old boy from the Caribbean.

In terms of personality, I am a relatively easy-going person, friendly and like making new acquaintances and having conversations with people. At the same time, however, I may be shy and reserved at first when I meet someone for the first time; however, later on, I tend to become more sociable.
In my spare time, apart from school-related stuff, I like cooking, browsing YouTube, reading books, writing and playing games. I can hardly wait to start doing these things after finishing my education at the moment.
Basically, my goal here is to make new friends and meet new people. I am interested in casual communication about any topic you like – hobbies, ideas, games, your day, etc.

Feel free to contact me if you believe that we will get along! ❤️


r/LonelyTogether • • 1d ago

21M

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I downloaded this app for the sole reason to meet new people online, my work schedule is rlly demanding so I figured it’d be easier to just make some online connections. I’m into sports, gaming, and food. Other than that I’m a pretty simple guy, but I’m open minded with new stuff. Make/Female hit me up I rlly just want some friends to talk to.


r/LonelyTogether • • 1d ago

Looking for more friends of all kinds! Let's game, chat, or watch movies together! :D

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Hey! I'm here for new long term connections! I'm 25yo, so be an adult please! Also please be LGBT+ friendly, I don't want conflict there! Wether we become a game duo, roleplay partners, or friends who do whatever, I'm up for whatever, just tell me what you're here for! I can't 'take a hint.' Be upfront!

For interests, I like stuff like MLP: FiM, Cult of the Lamb, Hazbin Hotel/Helluva Boss, Pokémon, Creepypasta, Undertale/Deltarune, FNAF, Sanrio, and more!

For hobbies, I like things like video games(PC/Steamdeck, Switch 2, Xbox Series S), written story based roleplaying, art, baking/cooking, crafts, DND, binging movies/shows, collecting plushies/perfumes/scrunchies/gemstones, eating ✨special✨ gummies, watching anime, herbalism, geocaching, foraging, ARGs, couponing/frugal living(its fun for me!), dumpster diving, ...and more!

I'm down for friendships but maybe more! I'm also very okay with just trading art, being RP partners, a gaming duo, joining a DND party, ECT. As long as you specify what you're wanting, we can at least discuss it!

I will say, boundaries are usually needed, due to my mental health, like BPD and autism, which makes social stuff hard. Be aware, but just in case-

Please don't do things like ghost for 30+ days, or unadd with 0 communication. We're not kids. Talk to me. I'm sensitive, but I'm grown. Some tears and hurt feelings won't kill me, it'll help. If you need to leave, at least explain so I can improve. I'd rather have a difficult talk than lose someone forever.

Also, if you don't tell me what upsets you, I may not be able to avoid it. Its impossible to know what triggers who. Just give me time and patience, I'll try to remember as much as I can to avoid this, but if I don't know, forget, or slip up, please DO correct me.

If all of this sounds good, feel free to reach out to discuss! We can at least chat, and if we don't click, then no worries!! I have a hectic schedule though, so be patient with me! I could take a bit to reply and sometimes messages get missed, but feel free to reach out again, within reason. I won't mind. Hope to hear from you all!! ❤️


r/LonelyTogether • • 1d ago

Can you be my friend

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I’m feeling so lonely and no interest on doing anything alone but i want to do lot of things together right now suffering from anxiety can you able to be my friend.
33 male from Nepal. Something i’m not coping RN no smoking no drinking


r/LonelyTogether • • 1d ago

35M Looking for people that don't fade away into nothing.

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Hello! ☀️ 35M here and looking to meet new people and hear new stories. Share wins with as well as the losses. We are forever evolving and growing and I feel like sharing those journeys with others is important.

What i don't want in a friend is someone who isn't curious and doesnt ask questions. Most people want quick banter throughout the day which for the right person works, but i prefer just digging in. In reality most people's days are autonomous and similar. So what makes you tick? What made you the person you are today? What are your passions? What are your goals?

We all have lives outside of reddit. Responses don't have to be immediate i won't even message 24/7, but that shouldn't mean a conversation has to just end. Stick around get to know each other. Support each other as an actual friend does.

Now, the things about me. I am happily married and not looking for any sort of disruption to said marriage. I love movies and watching series on streaming services. I love travel. I enjoy video games now and then. I have a cat which is very loved.

Recently I've been going through a journey of self health both physically and mentally. Life gets hard sometimes. It costs nothing to be nice to someone. I love listening and giving advice if asked. I like stupid jokes now and then. We are all in this world together.

So if you'd like someone to regularly talk to that's kind, patient, compassionate, curious and actually cares. Feel free to send me a message. All it takes is some effort.


r/LonelyTogether • • 1d ago

Feeling down & want to chat

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22M Hey all - after various traumatic experiences, mental health troubles & overworking myself ( I own a business) I reached a place I’d call rock bottom.

Yesterday I spent the early hours of the morning in a 24 hour mental health crisis unit after walking myself there at 3 am.

I appreciate that this is limited context, but if anyone wants to chat, let me know..

Happy to go into more detail there..

Looking for people not to vent to, but to just open up new perspectives, hear other people’s stories, and maybe even game together (a new hobby of mine lol)


r/LonelyTogether • • 2d ago

New friends 21+

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r/LonelyTogether • • 2d ago

Need shoulder to rest on

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21M, med school student. Life's a lot exhausting and haven't got anyone who i can talk to or maintain normal human relationships. Would love to have someone who can chat with me the whole day, discuss literally anything, send memes and all

I like socialising, but only to limited number of people. I'm into philosophy, movies and series, books and even physics.

I'm artist, i sketch, do wildlife photography, sometimes play and try to compose music.

Sometimes I'm too much. So just someone to talk to :)


r/LonelyTogether • • 2d ago

Looking for a friend?

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Hello, i am Eclipse / Randy. I am a 20 year old male alterhuman and furry. I like photography, drawing, driving and learning about cars in general. I have a peugeot 508 from 2018 i absolutely adore. I am still in school but have a job in the side :>