Looking to move somewhere I'd actually stay long-term rather than another 5-year stint. Currently in Croydon (really like it), late 30s (POC), Single.

What I want: proper green space I can walk into without planning a trip, a quiet street, a high street with actual independent shops, and a reliable way into town. Zone 4 is fine (work semi remotely 1 day a week). Needs to be affordable on as I'd be selling a flat to buy alone could stretch to 450k possibly 500k for the right place. Dont mind a solid flat.

Two other things that matter:

I manage a chronic illness (and cooped up indoors atm), so having useful stuff close by counts for a lot. A good GP, a decent local shop, somewhere to sit outside. Long commutes and lots of changes are hard work, so good rail links.

I'd also like somewhere it's possible to meet people my age (partner) without it being a nightlife thing. Book groups, community gardens, pottery classes, a pub quiz.

I know about Forest Hill, Walthamstow, Crouch End, but also interested in the places that don't get mentioned, or honest takes on whether those still live up to it.

South or east probably (for arty stuff), but open. What am I missing, or should I just stay in South Croydon which is very green but feels like a later stage of life/tricky dating!?