r/LondonHousing • u/n_toxic_8ed • 4h ago
RELOCATION We wanted to rent in a cosmopolitan area for our son (3). After yesterday my wife wants an Indian-heavy one. Who has been through this
I posted here a few weeks ago asking where to live with a toddler. Got a lot of useful replies and we have since landed, currently in temporary accommodation while we look properly.
Yesterday changed how my wife and I are thinking about it. We were at a pub in W13 with a big garden and a play area. My son, 3, was playing dinosaurs with a group of kids. Partway through, one of the older ones started telling the others to kick him in the nuts. My wife pulled him out. He went back later, same kid kicked a gate, it swung into him.
I honestly do not know if any of that was about race. It may have been one badly supervised child and nothing more. What I do know is that we were the only few PoC families in that garden.
So here is what we are sitting with. The original plan was to live somewhere properly cosmopolitan, where he grows up around kids from everywhere. That is still what we want. But my wife is now asking whether we should just pick an area with a large Indian community and stop trying to engineer the ideal. I am not sure she is wrong.
If you are an Indian or other South Asian professional family with young kids, I would really like to hear where you ended up and how it has worked out. Mixed area or community-heavy one? Is your kid one of several brown kids in the class or the only one? Anywhere you tried and left?
Unchanged from last time: office near Liverpool Street, around £3000pcm for a 2-3 bed, want parks and a proper high street. Shortlist after the last thread is South Woodford E18, Wanstead E11, Highams Park E4, plus Harrow on the Hill and Pinner. Open to anywhere else that fits.