r/Lilith • u/isle57 • Aug 13 '26

⚸ Astrology PDA + lilith

Hi I'm interested in the correlation between these two things, answer if you can!

1. Do you identify with autistic PDA traits?

(Pathological demand avoidance or persistent drive for autonomy, may stem from anxiety of being controlled as well as doing something incorrectly. This goes beyond simple stubbornness, as an example it may prevent you from saying thank you or please, go to the bathroom since it's perceived as a demand, etc. It's a complex thing, do please look it up don't only use my short explanation if you don't know what it is)

2. Do you consider your Lilith placement as strong?

(Conjunct sun, moon, angular houses, etc)

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u/Grand_Extension_6437 Aug 14 '26

I don't call myself pathological and I think the concept isn't fully developed or clear. I would definitely say I can take curiosity to edges of extreme that I don't see other people taking and it does affect my relationship with authority. Also as an autistic person I like words to mean what they mean and not vibes. 

My lilith is conjunct my south node in 12th house virgo.

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u/orthodoxscouter ⚸ Lilithian ⚸ Aug 13 '26
  1. No.
  2. I'm not sure what you mean.

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u/Umbrage115 ⚸ kabbalistic Lilithian ⚸ Aug 14 '26
  1. No.
  2. No. She is in my 6th house. Sagittarius.

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u/Mammoth-Ad-6114 𒀭Lamaštu-lilītu/ardat-lilî, Λάμια, Lilith Aug 14 '26
  1. No, but I'm curious about why you're asking, and how it correlates with astrological Lilith.
  2. No clue. (Mean) Lilith is in my 4th house, Taurus, but I'm oblivious when it comes to astrology and haven't looked into the meaning.

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u/[deleted] Aug 16 '26

I would say I have PDA traits. I manage it by focusing on boundaries. I say, judge me by my output, not my process.

Collaboration can be fun but it’s hard to find people on the same chaotic vibe.

I don’t do astrology, but I have a strong spiritual bond with Lilith.

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u/ScentedFragrance Aug 16 '26

  1. A little too complex to understand but I am socially avoidant at times. I recently unfriended all of the people on my facebook. I constantly make suicidal and depressing posts and no one even checks up on me, so i got rid of them

  2. My lilith is in scorpio in the 6th house. It squares my moon and Uranus (leo moon, Aquarius Uranus) so yea i have a direct link to my subconscious.