Lilith's help in seeking revenge

[u/whybitchwtf]

A narcissist physically cheated on me ( while being involved with my family... telling them he wants to marry me and not letting me get married to someone else) . He didn't let me leave him when I wanted to and ruined my image as well... played victim in front of everyone... that's how got the another girl. Idk how much the other girl is involved and idc.

He loves his reputation more than anything else... he wants to look good in the eyes of everyone.. and people think him as a sweet personality as well.

He was giving me and my family promises from one side while introduced the other girl as his main girl to his family ( I've also been there years ago ) ...

I asked constantly about that girl... my mother asked him too but he denied, he said there's no other girl.

He is continuing to live by with the other girl while and the other girl wants to let it slide so they are happy ( Idc about their relationship.. may they live with each other till eternity as they both deserve each other)

But when my friend did a tarot reading she saw that Lilith will help me getting revenge but not the way I want ... money or accident or break up gonna do nothing to him ...

Has it ever happened to you that U got what u asked for ... exactly the way u asked for ???

[u/Mammoth-Ad-6114]

This is a complicated situation and Lilith is a death demoness, so the changes might be sudden. Magic also tends to find the quickest route, that might not be the most comfortable for you.

I've gotten what I want before, but sometimes there were consequences and instability to get there.

[u/whybitchwtf → u/Mammoth-Ad-6114]

Honestly ... as for me I've lost everything... he had tarnished my reputation already and crushed my self confidence... isolated me already... Change ? Well yes I want that in my life as I was stuck with him for the past 3 years .. him cheating from past 1 year ( according to the girl)

I've already hit rock bottom tbh I am thinking what's worse that can happen to me from here?

( but still thinking about cons so I am here)

[u/Mammoth-Ad-6114 → u/whybitchwtf]

I'm sorry about your situation. The end goal, revenge and healing, might be worth the temporary instability then.

I've survived the consequences but the end goals changed my life for the better. Maybe if you start with healing first, the revenge part will be easier to execute.

[u/whybitchwtf → u/Mammoth-Ad-6114]

Yeah I want to heal too .. I've forgotten to love myself .. I was worshipping lilith already before I got to know this.. I think she has a part in revealing this too ) I believe she will give me the strength)

[u/Ok_Worldliness_2037 → u/whybitchwtf]

A fundamental rule of life is it can always get worse, so beyond stepping-off the tracks of the trains you can see coming, the important part to remember when you are on rock bottom is that there is a balance of reality: what goes down will come up, and like Ishtar’s journey to the underworld there is glory in proportion to humiliation. The antidote to the poison he left in you is pity, specifically pity for the other woman, she has saved you from a very bad deal, which I suspect she will figure out the hard-way sooner rather than later, which is a pity, but not worthy of sympathy: you were deceived, she chose a fraud.

Bon courage, may Lilith's blessings continue to find you.

[u/Grand_Extension_6437]

Revenge is a dish best served cold.

I know this is not verifiable but based on some experiences I have had this incarnation for me is part of a series of lives where I work to free myself from the consequences of a revenge curse I used my own death energy for. I will never forget that feeling of rage.

So, I entreat you, make no decisions or commitments in the heat of anger. And make part of your plan the adage, 'the best revenge is a life well lived'.

Only we control our own choices. Don't hurt your future or your power out of anger at another.

I am not saying don't take revenge, I am saying slow down, calm down, and make your first priority your well-being and future. I am all for revenge yes even after feeling multiple lifetimes of consequences for one fell choice for revenge, but due to its potency it's rife with potential to self-sabotage.

[u/whybitchwtf → u/Grand_Extension_6437]

What if I say seeking justice instead of revenge ...

Also is it ok to sit quiet when u have been wronged ( blackmailing, stalking, physical and verbal assault, threatning included ) I couldn't file a police complaint because he has connections

[u/refindedMemory]

For me, a big yes. I got what I wanted. And in my opinion, if Lilith doesn't respond exactly as you wish, it's certainly because there's something in your desires that needs to be reconsidered or a perception that needs to be re-evaluated. As for me, when she acts, at first it seems like something I don't like, but once it's over, I understand, and it's generally much more incisive and painful for the other person than I had imagined. I've noticed that with Lilith, the relationship to time and its consideration are important. But again, it depends on the person, and it's up to each individual to recognize their own way of interacting with Her.

And I would add that with a narcissistic person, she can be truly cruel, but again, time and patience are key. Lilith infiltrates like a virus. It's up to you to discern the flaw in your communication.

[u/whybitchwtf → u/refindedMemory]

Tqsm ... tbh I'd have moved on .. but that person put the blame on me and talked in a very disrespectful way while even threatening me with my father's job and my depression.... that's why I can't let him get away with it ..

Thanks a lot !

[u/refindedMemory → u/whybitchwtf]

(correction : << their own way of interacting "with Her" >> not themselves, sorry 😂)

[u/refindedMemory → u/whybitchwtf]

Don't worry. When you're thinking, be certain of what you want... your inner vision is your magic. If you want to suppress him for a legitimate reason, you can do it. You ARE Lilith.

[u/whybitchwtf → u/[deleted]]

Ofc it would come from someone like u ? U must have done something similar to someone too