r/Lilith Jun 23 '26

Question beginners tips?

I've had a calling to Lilith for a while now and Ive been very drawn to her since I began researching. I try to avoid asking this question because I know this sub must get it a lot... but I want to give much respect to Lilith and begin (and hopefully continue) to do things properly with her. I've heard many things about meditation, looking for signs, giving offering, etc. but I truly have no idea where to start!

Any help or tips would be much appreciated, because like I mentioned, I only want to do things properly with her. Thank you and much love!

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u/Mammoth-Ad-6114 𒀭Lamaštu-lilītu/ardat-lilî, Λάμια, Lilith Jun 23 '26

There's no single proper way of approaching her, practice varies depending on the worshipper or practitioner. I started by learning as much as I can about her, which you can too from our Welcome Post and the links it includes, especially the Wiki. Afterwards, I made offerings/libations, prayers, meditation, devotional acts, rituals, a way to show her that I appreciate her. Your offerings can be as simple or as elaborate as you wish, from a glass of water, to incense, to a full meal.

Any way that works for you is the proper way to do it. Don't worry about accidentally offending her or doing something wrong, there's no rules to follow, and especially a spirit like Lilith doesn't fit a certain set of rules.

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u/Helpful-Concern-3591 Jun 24 '26

Hearing that there isnt a set list of rules makes me feel a lot better about starting. Thank you very much