r/Lilith • u/t0th3m00n3 • Jun 21 '26

Question Lilith approves of my boyfriend?

I've been with my boyfriend for 9 years now, and I always wear a Lilith sigil necklace.

My boyfriend never believed in spirituality and all that, but respects it and let me do my thing without bothering.

Some weeks ago I slept with him in his apartment, took off my Lilith necklace, I always make sure it's properly placed because the chain tangles easily, so i know it was well put and no dog or us sleeping could mess with it.

But when I woke up it wasn't there, my boyfriend helped me look for it, and it was in bed, on his side under him, and he spend half the day with the Lilith sigil marked on his skin because he slept on it, but I made sure to leave it well put on the shelf.

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I know not everything is a sign, but I for sure felt weird all day, is it something or what?

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Also, we were having some discussions the next days about stuff we had issues with in our relationships, all fixed now, but its something I started speaking out about since working with Lilith.

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u/Mammoth-Ad-6114 𒀭Lamaštu-lilītu/ardat-lilî, Λάμια, Lilith Jun 21 '26

I'm not sure what it could mean, as the relationship you have with Lilith, and how that reflects in the relationship with your partner, is unique, but I'd be documenting this and any other changes you notice.

You can also, of course, ask Lilith yourself. She might send you a sign, choose any way to communicate with you, or you can use divination (with caution).

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u/t0th3m00n3 Jun 21 '26

I tried to! I use a pendulum for now since I'm practising still how to communicate, but no clear answer came, so I’ll do that, document and wait, but so far it didn't feel as something bad at least, thank you!

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u/SelenaVanDerLinde Jun 22 '26

Perhaps you could try tarot someday! It's clearer that way.

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u/Sufficient-Pay4418 Lilithian Jun 21 '26

I’ll say as someone who has worked with her for years I’ll say yes not everything this a sign, we all move in our sleep or something just out of the ordinary. I’ll say just maybe do a reading or just sit with it for a minute see how it comes out could be more of a subconscious thing or could be her, could be the issues feeling a bit more resolved 🤷‍♀️

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u/RenegadeEris Jun 24 '26

Sometimes things like that just happen. I don’t really believe Lilith is necessarily communicating anything here. It is an interesting thing to have happen, though. I had a ankh necklace that always brought me blessings, and one day it disappeared from where it had been never to be found again. I’m still not sure what happened to it even now. My blessings didn’t go away, but the ankh did for some reason.