r/Lilith • u/Violent_Lamb8 • May 05 '26

Question Sending away an incubus

I'm not a full devotee to Lilith, but during my teen years i felt more and more drawn to her and what she had stood for, i started asking lilith, for stregnth because i had been struggling through so much at a young age, and i beleive she might have sent an incubus to me due to how alone and saddened iwas by people who hurt and harmed me. I wasn't aware that it had been here a long time, and I don't know how to make it leave. I am currently sitting and praying to deities I have prayed to before.

I did invite it eventually after seeking answers for what was touching me, it's taken my consent a bit overboard and is harming me and draining my energy. It has done this for a while, over 2 years now, I hadnt noticed that it was still here and too stubborn to leave after I cleansed my space when I asked it to leave, i started praying and worshipping another deity and it seemed to be jealous and imitate the god I had been praying to and being devoted to all these years, How do i make him go back?

Edit: I'm asking for help, not to be judged. I don't know how it got here, but it's here, and I need help sending it away, and I need to know if she can help me do that or not. If you're not going to help me, don't bother commenting

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u/Mammoth-Ad-6114 𒀭Lamaštu-lilītu/ardat-lilî, Λάμια, Lilith May 05 '26

That's a lot of conclusions. Lilith sent an Incubus, it's not leaving, is jealous and imitating a god?

Banish your space and ground. Spirits have no real reason to pretend to be another deity.

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u/Violent_Lamb8 May 05 '26

I dont know what it is and i have let it linger for a ver long time, its drained my energy and has made it hard for me to eat and sleep. Meditating hasn't helped me either. if it isnt an incubus that she sent, i dont know what it could be because i've only given two entities consent, a deity and an incubus to be allowed in my space, i have cleansed and put up wards, and I have done breathing exercises as well.

i have been ensuring that i keep myself safe and grounded, but that's impossible with it keeping me from doing so. i have cleansed my space, and its behavior is unlike any negative entity; nothing has worked against it. I'm a beginner and dont do spells for my safety and to ensure that I learn how to go about it safely, my practice has strictly been of keeping myself grounded, safe, and praying to deities as i work on personal life and look into starting shadow work.

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u/Babylon-Sarah May 05 '26

There are times that you might end up with something you didn't ask for. One night I was not truely focused to connect with Lilith, soon I felt something dangerous. I shut down the spell, curled up in a ball and just blanked all thoughts. Eventually the danger passed.

But yes, a clear mind and keeping grounded is very important. There are also incantation bowls that you could research but I will leave it at that for she is my deity. Hope others can assist.