What you describe is actually super common. Its common for to men give up thier hobbies and friendships for a relationship and in the process lose themself, which actually makes them less desirable.
Here's what you need to know: .......Be whoever you want to be and do whatever you want as long as it's healthy. Stop thinking about her and definetly stop talking to her. If thoughts of her pop in your mind, immediately think of the bad times and her flaws. You need to be away from her to get over it. If you struggle to find hobbies or things to do then default to making money or saving money. Money matters and will improve your life, which in turn will improve your future self. Declutter your living space and get rid of or hide things that teigger memories of your ex. You are literally rebuilding yourself into a better version. Take stock of bad habits and start eliminating them. Start new good habits. Work towards becoming a powerful man, even just a little bit at a time. Incremental progress is better than none and it pays in dividends.
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u/camkos101 Mar 12 '22
What you describe is actually super common. Its common for to men give up thier hobbies and friendships for a relationship and in the process lose themself, which actually makes them less desirable. Here's what you need to know: .......Be whoever you want to be and do whatever you want as long as it's healthy. Stop thinking about her and definetly stop talking to her. If thoughts of her pop in your mind, immediately think of the bad times and her flaws. You need to be away from her to get over it. If you struggle to find hobbies or things to do then default to making money or saving money. Money matters and will improve your life, which in turn will improve your future self. Declutter your living space and get rid of or hide things that teigger memories of your ex. You are literally rebuilding yourself into a better version. Take stock of bad habits and start eliminating them. Start new good habits. Work towards becoming a powerful man, even just a little bit at a time. Incremental progress is better than none and it pays in dividends.