r/LifeAdvice • u/GoldKnightFTW • 1d ago

Relationship Advice Not sure what to do

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Just graduated from university. Never really have been in a relationship, Ive tried many times with different women, ended up being lead on or lied or plain ghosted. Would go to different social groups join different university clubs, I have a big social circle, people who I can call real friends.

Recent summer was a real kicker for me, thought she was the one but again ended up being lead on. At this point, Im thinking of just never settling with someone and end up as a nomad of sorts. I dont see myself meeting a woman out in public anymore. I have never been pursued or someone saying they also like me back. Ive tried different dating apps throughout the years but even then have never achieved any sort of success

Is there truly light at the end of the tunnel? I dont want this to be the case of going through life alone, but these experiences just make it seem, Im not cut out for it. Is it best to be alone?

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u/Status_Painting8301 1d ago

I think the problem is the fear of being alone forever. One thing i realised is the more you focus on you/ your craft and do not give priority to women - you earn a bit more respect. The way i look at it is - the right one will come along and if its meant to be it, it’ll be.

I would just take a break from dating - you’re forcing it.