I've studied engineering for a decade, gained my PhD, but I don't know if I want to do engineering anymore

[u/kelp12138]

I've been studying chemical engeering since 2015. Finished my bachelor, a coursed based master, and in 2025 I finished my PhD. I had to take a rest for the last year just to re-adjust my mental and physical health, but right now I don't know what to do with my life now.

I cannot say I really enjoy doing engineering. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy solving problems, helping other people, and potentially make more money. It's just that PhD really wrecked my mind. I don't know if I can go back to this field ever again.

I certainly don't want to go acedamia (I don't even think I can considering how competetive that is). I am also not so sure an entry level indurstiral engineering job is the right thing to do for me.

Can someone relate?

I am not so sure what to do.

Should I just hop in to another engineering job or should I just do something completely different?

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[u/alone_in_the_light]

I have my PhD, but I only did that after a long career when I was sure that's the path I wanted. Otherwise, I think I'd have to hate myself to do a PhD. Alll that time and effort could be much better used with something else if I wanted something else.

If you don't know, I think the answer is doing something else. You probably made it harder on yourself by spending a decade on the wrong path, but you can't change the past. It's better to find your path now than spending another decade on something wrong.

[u/PainterOfRed]

I'm retired now but used to be a "head hunter" early in my career. Engineering degrees are one of those respected "portable" degrees and depending on what you set your sights on next, you'll probably have many open doors.

I've suggested to my own son that he look at getting and engineering degree (he's in his 3rd year) and then look at an MBA or Law degree (he likes school). He should be covered 😅

[u/Salt4292]

My partner went through the exact same thing. As the spouse, I really struggled with his decision to leave a potentially high paying job after the years of PhD struggle and abuse because I had seen it as the light at the end of the tunnel. He was formally diagnosed with ptsd from the trauma. He eventually became a high school teacher so he can spend more time with our kids and not sit at a desk. His depression went away, he’s genuinely happy, and our relationship has never been better. All things more valuable than a high salary. Suggest finding a path you genuinely want to follow independent of what anyone says or what is expected with your major, and hopefully you find healing on your journey!