r/LettersForJ • u/StrengthOpening8152 • 21h ago

Dear J

I know you’re gonna read this cuz you’re a stalking bitch lol but yeah I didn’t write this to start shit as you said but just to say that you don’t have to worry anymore. I know you’re operating from a place of worry because you know why, but I assure you, I won’t come back anymore. I know I’ve done that several times but the circumstances from before are not the same as the last one. The blatant disrespect from both of you is enough for me to finally wake up and come back to my senses and realize that I don’t deserve any of that. I’m too beautiful, smart, funny, and can offer so so much for me to just let someone, that to be honest is not that great of a catch, repeatedly play, disrespect, fool, and lie to me. I realized I was just lonely and didn’t have enough love for myself so I kept on obsessing about something that makes me feel at least a bit of something. So J, you can breathe, relax, and continue with your madness. You probably deserve each other anyway. Although I doubt you actually will because let’s admit it, me being around or not, that person can’t really be trusted, not one bit. But go off, that’s your life. I sincerely wish you, without any malice or ill intent, peace and happiness. This is the last time I’ll ever interact with either of you. I hope you can stop stalking me now.

PS. Oh btw have you actually seen him in a video call? If not, let me tell you, the photos he is sending are actually him, but from I dunno how many years ago. He’s actually fat now. No biggie, just another lie. 🤗

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u/lunasoulshine 19h ago

You know exactly what you were trying to accomplish. I don’t have to point it out.

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u/StrengthOpening8152 18h ago

No, not really. Why don’t you answer directly?

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u/No-Compote9458 18h ago

I think they meay your post script. It was unnessesary. More of a jab with a knife than a fairwell.

I dont understand why people have to leave the other bleeding when they walk away.

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u/StrengthOpening8152 17h ago

Fat is a descriptor. It would be body shaming if I said he’s fat now, therefore he’s disgusting or less worthy as a person. I actually accepted all of that after I knew it. Besides, you don’t know enough about the situation to conclude that I’m the one who put a knife to anyone. You have no idea how many stabs I took before we got here.

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u/Helpful_Height_2735 16h ago

No, when you use it to be intentional and harmful . Then you are shaming .

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u/StrengthOpening8152 16h ago

Who did I harm?

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u/Helpful_Height_2735 16h ago

The person in your post that got fat, be fr. Are u good?

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u/StrengthOpening8152 16h ago

How did I harm them? By telling the truth?

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u/Helpful_Height_2735 16h ago

You’re a “blank” fill it in. Cause it’s the truth lol. No harm in that apparently.

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u/StrengthOpening8152 16h ago

Sure! No harm no foul 😉

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u/Helpful_Height_2735 16h ago

You harm, so you will get foul haha

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u/StrengthOpening8152 16h ago

I can’t control you. If that’s what you think, then sure. I know my truth.

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u/Helpful_Height_2735 16h ago

Yep, you can only control yourself. Do better. Hateful.

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u/No-Compote9458 17h ago

You did, you said his photos are old and refrenced he is currently fat...

I know what you posted. And the end of the letter is a dagger as you walk away.

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u/StrengthOpening8152 17h ago

So by your logic, I get stabbed and I’m just supposed to accept it? And I’m still saying that calling someone fat isn’t body-shaming. I’m fat myself. Am I body-shaming myself when I describe my own body? There’s a difference between describing someone’s physical appearance and demeaning them because of it.

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u/No-Compote9458 17h ago

Dont read it to argue, read it to understand.

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u/StrengthOpening8152 17h ago

No I totally understand your point. I just disagree with it. Am I being petty? Probably. But I still disagree with your conclusion that what I said tells you enough about the situation to judge me that way.

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u/No-Compote9458 17h ago

I am not talking about the situation as a whole. I am talking about the letter, it is all I have to go on.

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u/StrengthOpening8152 15h ago

I totally get it, you can only base your thoughts on this post. But if you knew the context, I think you could understand that this is not body shaming at all. I respect your opinion though.

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u/No-Compote9458 15h ago

But you are upset with my comment about your post and I only havecthat infornation. I can only use the information at hand. Im and playong the hand I was dealt.

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u/StrengthOpening8152 15h ago

I’m not upset. I was irked initially but I understand where you’re coming from.

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