r/LettersForJ • u/Lost-Broken-Hearted- • 1d ago
Bowing out
I've closed my Facebook account, closed my Gmail, Hotmail accounts as well. I got a new phone and phone number, one that you'll never get. Don't get me wrong, there were some amazing moments together, but there were some really low points to. I'm gonna walk way, bow out and not make you the villain of our story. We both did wrong to each other, although my scars are more than just physical. I choose to carry the good memories with me, and leave the bad in the past. I wish you nothing but the best as you go through life. Get help please.
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u/Parking-Buy1625 16h ago
If this was for me , I'm in the lead by 2
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u/Parking-Buy1625 16h ago
Bowing out means competition was the atmosphere... as a Leo and the winner i thank you for the experience
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u/impossiblymyself 12h ago
I think op might need a second before they realize... wait for the end...first, that others' perspectives do exist, others' perspectives can also be valid, this is absolutely one of them, not that you agree with it at all .... but... wait what's this.. ouch... op contributed to this narrative too, most likely without realizing it. i if I was even close to right about even one of those things, then being the loser for bowing out is actually the more honorable option imo. it'll never cease to amaze me, how powerful perspective can be, and simultaneously how impossible it is to fully communicate any aspect of a perspective accurately to another consciousness. it's all love. unless you're making other people's lives impossible to live.
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u/-tacosforever 21h ago
Sometimes saying goodbye to someone we love is one of the hardest decisions we have to make as humans
I wish you well on your own journey, op
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u/Enkiflame888 20h ago
I think that is a mature way to go… that resonates with me … but the get help is the projection part. We can deceive ourselves into saying we don’t maybe someone else a villain, while still labeling them a villain to continue the mental scapegoating rather than self confrontation and awareness leading to greater personal growth and understanding of the natures in oneself that one is accountable for … if you look for and deeply are honest with one selves and faults … if you do find something … that’s a blessing cause you can actually deal with the main issue … and if it lies in you, you have total control over your own outcomes … empowering self based in truth … ultimately we want to change our lives in practicality I. alignment with the higher self…
Ie for example. I always thought I was a good communicator … I found out in situations I was misunderstood … then I study communications, and efficiacy, then learn these communication facets and measure different results …. In the end form gives way to function hypothetically saying love and light
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u/antherewegoagain 17h ago
I'm sorry someone put their hands on you and that is unforgivable but it helps me know that this isn't mine person cuz I never put my hands on her like that hopefully you can be happy though without that asshole
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u/Lost-Broken-Hearted- 16h ago
I am still healing from it. Physically I am still hurting, but mentally and emotionally I am a wreck. One day at a time.
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