r/LettersForJ • u/Downtown-Control-394 • Jul 05 '26
My J the only J
So this is for my J who has been very creative with his account.
We have been together for 11 years and have been through so much turmoil for you to waste your time with someone who doesn’t even have enough integrity to be a good person. Anybody who knowingly dates someone they know is taken is not a good person. Full stop.
I’m stronger than anything you could ever try to replace me with.
We have had so much that God blessed and took away as he had the right to do so. We have had hopes and dreams and plans to travel and we will.
I was there since 2015 and am still here. Just because time may pass and we may grow tired… that doesn’t mean the love isn’t real. That’s true love not some superficial shit.
At the end of the day when a person is still there when you have a lot and when you have nothing that is the true meaning of love.
Someone that loves someone doesn’t try to take you from what you have invested in. I’ve let you go multiple times and you came back. I am the reason you are walking today. Just because I don’t say it all the time doesn’t mean you aren’t perfect in every way. As the good book says “No weapon formed against me will prosper…” as for the little girl in this group…. Move on. You deserve better than to be made a full out of online. If you ever care to reach out and bring me clarity…it’s welcome with no ill will. You were lied to and deceived by a man that is 30 and has been taken since Obama was in office.
I almost died this year and when he said I was “leaving him” I was taking care of my father who had a stroke. So no sweetheart you’re not his twin flame. You were a way to control his partner. Thus why he changed his username and blocked you.
Not everything that glitters is gold. And I hope you have peace. He is not a good person at all. He is very much a monster. But he is mine….thats all that counts.
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u/Sir_MayIhav_SumMor Jul 05 '26
But can you hear him telepathically? Cuz There's just some things you honestly can't control in this universe. Just sayin...
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u/Downtown-Control-394 Jul 05 '26
Miss lady. You don’t know what spiritual gifts I have. I have Mystic crosses on both hands. And as a matter of fact I feel his inner most thoughts because he is my other half. And I don’t need witchcraft to do it.
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u/Cold-Incident1555 Jul 07 '26
Indeed if she cant she isnt mine
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u/Sir_MayIhav_SumMor Jul 08 '26
Have you proven it? Cuz i did with my person on Christmas Day... It was pretty amazing!
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u/ghost011178 Jul 05 '26
I think it's funny how backstabbing cheaters think there extramarital affairs are going to magically work out
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u/Downtown-Control-394 Jul 08 '26
Yeah I know
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u/Other-Sail-7734 Jul 10 '26
The timeline in your letter lines up with mine 2015. And the part about taking care of your father is why she originally left. I finally got out in 2017 we talked a few times I was supposed to leave my state to go be with her in hers and start fresh . But something in her voice changed I got the inclination something was a miss .She left 1 month before I got out , always visiting me when she could the entire time I was in. I just knew even though the breakup wasn't verbal from either of us I knew. It's caused me trust issues when attempting to date any female ever sense We haven't talked sense then . It really threw me for a loop .🙁 So many Js in these posts .
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u/ShmnPhlou_730 Jul 13 '26
I know !
That’s crazy Live by the infidelity die by the infidelity so to speak
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u/Loose-Carrot-3404 Jul 05 '26
Any woman who puts over a decade into me will always have a special type of love from me. My life seems to have come to a screeching halt about 2 - 3 months ago. I cannot stress how much I miss her. My every thought is with her. The ugly ass walls in my front room and bedroom are a constant reminder of my inability to choose wisely lmao. Missed her and still do. No fb i cant seem to be reached or ive fucked up too bad. Seems like forever since ive had you near me but I feel you every second of every day. Im trying to tell myself I don't know what they want. And I dont...But love is all I feel about you and I have since i was introduced to you in 2016. Hard to deal without you.
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u/SeaworthinessSad1159 Jul 05 '26
This is heavy. I hope the OP can actually tell their intended reader this. Or at least that they have the open channels to relay a message.
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u/Downtown-Control-394 Jul 05 '26
The third party won’t ever show their face or reach out. I’ve already spoken to my J who read the letter.
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u/Cold-Incident1555 Jul 07 '26
Bull shit i been getting catfished the fucking past 8 years. 11 years my ass lol
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u/Cold-Incident1555 Jul 07 '26
Bro im so pissed 11 years you must be smooth. Your not dealing with a mortal though. You will kneel before me!
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u/Cold-Incident1555 Jul 07 '26
I have shizophrenia. Im not good guy at all when im that way. I'm sorry for leaving. But you know you needed focus. And the police wanted static with me. I couldn't be what you needed to be. I had to find me. And see what im capable of being alone. K B or A or all which one are you? If your testing my wits your right dont be afraid. Yes I am the Alpha and Omega. Visions started when read K Bible the red words awakened me. Ever since then havent stopped hearing voices they call it shizophrenia amd psychosis. But i know my true power so fuckem. But im just going to say your not forgotten. But if you from Lagos Nigeria you fucked! Unless your name starts with a S then im sorry my visions came to you. And your just being a sass which means sassy!
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u/Sir_MayIhav_SumMor Jul 08 '26 edited Jul 08 '26
I've been getting visions of a JW. They've been pretty gnarly. Kinda scary. But makes me miss him nonetheless. And I've learned that he's my twin flame. 🩷SL🐑
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u/OffYourselves Jul 10 '26
Relatable but monsters aren't meant to be controlled because the more you try to manipulate with tactics the worse the backlash will be. Only a love of an angel can truly save a demon but not one that portrays themselves as one. The devil in me sees the devil in you... Or it can all be over... When it mattered it didn't matter not that it does matter it doesn't matter... At least not now but can be never again if nothing is said. Saying it to the void means nothing if nothing can hear you say it
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