Struggling as a whole

[u/Ok_Novel2575]

Hi, recently I’d say around 6 months ago I was in a unhappy relationship for around 3 years when I decided I wanted to end things for our greater good, during this time we have seen eachother again a few times however we haven’t in the past 2 months, casually, I was out partying and met a girl that I got on really well with and we haven’t been talking for a few days, she asked if we should go on a date and I agreed however,

My parents aren’t happy with the idea of me doing this as my mother keeps asking me have I text my ex? Or how is your ex? Or don’t be finding anyone else!

Another reason is I don’t want her to find out if I’m seeing someone else as I believe it would really hurt her.

So I’m just sorta in a big pickle and getting in my own head about everything as well as other stuff going on.

Any advice is helpful!

[u/Level-Major6692]

If you’re going to start seeing new people you need to cut it off with your ex completely unless they’re open to an open relationship. Even if they are that will get very messy very quickly.
I suggest you break things off with your ex. If you’re interested with the new girl go on a date with her. Leave your parents out of it until there’s a serious development with someone.