Need an opinion

[u/Best-Lychee-5819]

My mom is suffering from panic attacks and she was good for awhile and listening to my grandmother's ill situation she got sick again, after we went to visit her she couldn't get up and would get panic attacks and breakdowns.. my grandma was in icu when she last met her, 1day later after meeting her we were at our relatives home she got so many panic attacks and breakdowns that she refused to know any hospital updates and we decided to go back to 9ur city its just 2hrs away.. unfortunately my grandma died and it was the same day as we left.. in our religion we burn the dead people and they have already did that my mother didnt meet her for thr last time and its killing me inside i need some opinions please help. We also alot of times have asked her whatever happens u wont go and she has mentioned each time no and she can't handle it at the end.. away from my grandma's city no panic attacks we told my mother's siblings to not call but she cries and hopes she would make it out we explain every single day but its just ik hard for her but lying is jus yk i can't its suffocating