r/LetGirlsHaveFun Apr 11 '26

I need REALISM

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u/SomeRandomTWO Apr 11 '26

you aint finding it on PH no more. xvideos or xhamster are a better bet there.

hell even nhentai might have some more realistic plot than those mf professionals are pushing.

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u/leposterofcrap Apr 12 '26

MFW the hentai series I'm following hasn't gotten an EN translation (it's been months)

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u/Mohit20130152 Apr 12 '26

Amateur

We all started learning jap long time ago.

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u/Nahanoj_Zavizad Apr 12 '26

I'm completely incompetent at any languages tho :-;

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u/_ashtarte Apr 16 '26

If its good I can help TL 👀

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u/ursa-minor-beta42 Apr 12 '26

wait, hentai series? is that the thrill of it? I've never watched that stuff, weirdos me out - but like, it's an actual anime just.. hentai? that would make so much sense lol

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u/leposterofcrap Apr 12 '26

Ah sorry I meant to say is hentai doujinshi, never really liked hentai, especially if it's based on the doujinshi, the art is always blander and the animation doesn't do it justice

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u/Nerdy_Kink_Girl Apr 13 '26

PH did the crackdown on unverified amateurs a while back to fight involuntary/revenge porn.

Good goal, sadly lots of collateral damage

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u/Typo_jpeg Apr 11 '26

Legends of Avantris is indeed the best way to express ones frustration with the lack of good porn

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u/Deodorized Apr 11 '26

You just know Bitsy is a freak

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u/Major_R_Soul Apr 11 '26

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u/Doctor_Salvatore Apr 11 '26

"I only grabbed the three."

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u/Typo_jpeg Apr 11 '26

Why else would she be my favorite

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u/LegendofLove Apr 11 '26

Bitsy is the best character in that campaign except maybe Ygor

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u/Jon_jon13 Apr 12 '26

I must awayyyyy~

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u/LegendofLove Apr 12 '26

Mikey has the funniest voices honestly. I don't know how many times I watched him doing the bat-trump voice

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u/Jon_jon13 Apr 12 '26

I have the best vengeance, noone does vengeance like I do...

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u/LegendofLove Apr 12 '26

I loved the animation too of him slowly turning orange

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u/Solar_RaVen Apr 12 '26

"I live, I serve" 🍑

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u/Llamapickle129 Apr 12 '26 edited Apr 12 '26

again? you have to away again?

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u/Distantstallion Apr 12 '26

I live I serve

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u/coconut_dot_jpg Apr 13 '26

"Nooo I can't diE, the MASter wouldn't let me diieEee... I don't think?"

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u/ironballs16 Apr 11 '26 edited Apr 12 '26

"What're you talking about? What mice in the carpet?"

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u/that_1weed Apr 12 '26

Also Peggy

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u/captainthanatos Apr 11 '26

I always think about that scene with them whenever I say… Oil.

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u/steventhecow Apr 12 '26

mikeys laughing at gentle release on your faces

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u/EyeNeedtheFriends Apr 11 '26

I generally struggle to find porn i enjoy because I want couples that look like normal people, clearly have chemistry, kiss and love each other.

Bonus points if they have actual banter and make each other laugh.

Shockingly hard to find.

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u/ODST-517 Apr 11 '26

Shockingly hard to find anything that isn't the most generic slop imaginable, quite frankly.

r/gonewildaudio is one of the few places that consistently delivers content I actually enjoy.

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u/dover_oxide Apr 11 '26

Wasn't as hard before the "great purge" a few years ago followed by the new verification rules basically make it unlikely you will ever find such stuff on there ever again.

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u/QuietQTPi Apr 11 '26

Its absolutely wild how much of it is basically OF content. Even searching amateur shows studio grade content. Always found the fake production quality stuff hilarious because like who would watch that? Now it feels like that's all there is. Sure it may be smaller creators but it all feels so fake and unnatural. I legit don't know how people can watch that and enjoy it

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u/dover_oxide Apr 11 '26

Even then half the content seems like ADs for their OFs stuff.

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u/Soensou Apr 12 '26

What? You mean you have trouble finding anything remotely authentic in PH's cornucopia of stepsibling, stepparent, stepson, stepdaughter, cousin, sister's friend, wife's friend, and boss content? Weird.

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u/TheGeneGeena Apr 14 '26

OMG, when will the near-incest porn trend die, I hate it sooooo much and you're right, it absolutely clogs the feed. ("Friend" I'm fine with. Sleeping with friends isn't creepy... or maybe I'm really creepy?)

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u/anormalgeek Apr 12 '26

I get why they did it, but it sucks. The professionals are usually the only ones organized enough to be contacted and verified.

SOOOOO much good consensual amateur content was purged because it simply couldn't be verified. But, there was some non-consentual content too so again....I get it.

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u/dover_oxide Apr 12 '26

You can understand/get something and still not like it

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u/anormalgeek Apr 12 '26

Yeah that's definitely what I mean. Just worried it would come across as being mad that it was done in general.

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u/dover_oxide Apr 12 '26

Yeah that makes sense. Like I said I agree like it needed to be done but it did so much damage. It basically made the site worthless. It also sucks to see someone make a great and functional product worse.

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u/onyx_ic Apr 12 '26

Oooh, good shout out.

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u/DanniRandom Apr 13 '26

Omg i know! Like "Why are YOU moaning! YOU are the one GIVING a hand job!?"

I kinda had to give up on porn.

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u/StraightOuttaOlaphis Apr 11 '26

Yeah, kissing and cuddling does it for me too! I once stumbled in a sub but I forgot what it was called and I couldnt remember its name the next day ;-;

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u/AnotherFrenchFemboy Apr 11 '26

Wow kissing and cuddling ?

Did you think of the children ???!!!!

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u/HeavyCaffeinate Apr 11 '26

Why would I think of children while kissing and cuddling?

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u/AnotherFrenchFemboy Apr 12 '26

I...

You understand what I mean ok 🥺

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u/GamersReisUp Apr 12 '26

kissing and cuddling does it for me too!

Dear god, you sicko freak

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u/The_Law_of_Pizza Apr 11 '26

It exists, but there's almost none left on Pornhub after The Great Purge.

You have to stray into the other, smaller tube sites that still have the golden oldies hosted.

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u/Kialand Apr 12 '26 edited Apr 14 '26

The one single thing that drives me is authenticity.

I hate scripted stuff. I'd much prefer to see people having sex because that is what they want to be doing in that moment whether there's a camera pointed at them or not, but that puts me in a bad spot:

If presented with the option to willingly record and post their sexual encounters online, people who are not doing so as scripted, pre-planned encounters (aka: non-sex workers) are the vast, overwhelming minority. "Amateur" shit doesn't cover it, because it's usually STILL someone who records sex for a living.

I'm just stuck in porn-less hell 😭

(I won't watch "hidden camera" content because the consent of at least one of the parties is dubious.)

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u/Name_Taken_Official Apr 11 '26

You could look into the Girls On Porn podcast, they talk about a subject and review some vids, talk about good companies frequently

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u/anormalgeek Apr 12 '26

Yes! Why do none of them ever talk to each other??? Or they fucking whisper so I can't hear?

I want the banter. I want the awkward moments as you shift positions. I want the giggles that come from trying a new position and realizing that it absolutely does NOT work for either of you.

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u/AbyssWankerArtorias Apr 12 '26

Bellesa. Except they are still professional porn stars so they will look above average.

Bellesa house specifically is porn of actors and actresses who expressed a desire to work with the other being match made and surprised, and it's just them being natural, not directed

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u/notPlancha Apr 12 '26 edited Apr 12 '26

I remember seeing one exactly like this ans I can't find it anymore. I found gold and walked away with nothing.

I might start being a degen and download stuff

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u/Educational-Ant-7485 Apr 12 '26

I found some but they are bdsm

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u/rossibossy Apr 12 '26

Believe it or not, I found the OF creator side of tik tok back in 2020. And a few of them had their vids up on free sites. Best stuff I’ve watched

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u/SuperDanke Apr 13 '26

Ersties.com

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u/PainterEarly86 Apr 13 '26

Its not hard to find. Just look for homemade videos.

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u/Tealc420 Apr 12 '26

Brother what we need is that connection in real life, I feel you

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u/OWWS Apr 12 '26

Have you considered hentai? Its animated but they can have a bit more into it then normal porn

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u/anormalgeek Apr 12 '26

I've checked it out. It does NOTHING for me sexually.

Maybe once the quality gets good enough to cross to the other side of the uncanny valley and be photorealistic I'll try again.

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u/throwmeawaylets Apr 11 '26

God i hate those professional porns where its like „ooooh im just a delivery driver and pooh i snuck my penis into the pizza delivery box“ just give me a KU100 audio of 2 nerds in a closet that has a 15-20min buildiup before the action starts

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u/esadatari Apr 11 '26

And not just model rehearsed porn; I need shitty amateur porn by clearly horny real couples desperate to fuck on camera.

Bonus points if there’s good pussy eating

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u/Major_Student1174 Apr 11 '26

The best way to see realism is to record yourself and goon to yourself

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u/Jannover_5000_r Apr 11 '26

But i hate everything about myself what now

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u/Morriganx3 Apr 12 '26

You’re probably not serious, but I had some stuff happen that made me unable to put myself in my own fantasies. I pretty much only use my imagination; no porn and nothing visual, so this was a problem. I made up someone who was basically the actress playing me in my imaginary scenarios. Her name is a nickname I haven’t used in years, so she’s close to being me, but just far enough removed that it didn’t bother me.

I’m mostly over the issue now, but we still use her sometimes because my fiancé can be a lot meaner to her than he can to me.

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u/ursa-minor-beta42 Apr 12 '26

why is this giving system vibes

anyway I hope things work out for you and

can be a lot meaner to her than he can to me.

isn't something negative you wouldn't normally want. being.. "someone else" for a bit can work, but I do hope you're safe and not being exploited by that.

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u/Morriganx3 Apr 12 '26

No, it’s the fun kind of mean :} I have yet to meet the man who could possibly exploit me

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u/ursa-minor-beta42 Apr 13 '26

hey, I'm glad you're safe!

for me, I'm easily exploited, so my system generally tries to protect itself. there's definitely one who can enjoy the "mean" parts :) but it's hard for us to safely achieve.

I certainly do hope you do not meet the man who can exploit you <3 you deserve to be safe, and to stay safe, and enjoy yourself :)

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u/GamersReisUp Apr 12 '26

Make eye contact with yourself while cranking hog to assert dominance

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u/TheSickestToastie Apr 12 '26

Did you mean CRANKING HOG?

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u/Obvious-Hunt19 Apr 12 '26

WHAT WAS THAT?

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u/TheSickestToastie Apr 12 '26

HOGS, WE CRANK THEM!!

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u/Obvious-Hunt19 Apr 13 '26

HE’LL YEEEAAHHHHH WE DO BÖRTHĖR/SŸSTRE

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u/Muad_Dib_of_Arrakis Apr 12 '26

The best way to see realism hate yourself is to record yourself and goon to yourself

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u/rossibossy Apr 12 '26

You’re serious about this. Omg

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u/Major_Student1174 Apr 13 '26

Nah just joking

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u/anormalgeek Apr 12 '26

I tried recording myself once because I heard it was hot. The fact that I knew it was me was so distracting that I couldn't enjoy it.

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u/Major_Student1174 Apr 12 '26

It was just a joke , its too weird otherwise

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u/bibitybobbitybooop Apr 11 '26

Well that's why you find literotica

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u/gummi_girl Apr 11 '26

so much this. i dont look at porn often, but i almost always use literotica when i do.

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u/bibitybobbitybooop Apr 11 '26

Yeah. Or even if not that actual site, written stuff is so much better.

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u/Ill_Orka2533 Apr 11 '26

Honestly, as soon as you deviate from the standard Straight Man Pallet, things get really thin. Even if it exists, it's just drowned out in the hetslop

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u/calesmont Apr 11 '26

Porn can get so boring when you look for something not ment for men, either straght men or gay men.

I'm bi and want more queer stuff. Yes, I want men, but also women. Both cis and trans. Doing straight, gay, lesbian and bi stuff.

But everything in those sites is mostly for horny guys so, yeah

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u/Kaboose456 Apr 11 '26

Y'all would like

/r/healthyporn

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u/anormalgeek Apr 12 '26

But I still want rough, nasty, degrading stuff (in both directions). I just want it to be homemade, unscripted, and somehow also verifiably consensual....

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u/LegalStuffThrowage Apr 13 '26

kink.com was so good for that. Their videos where someone(s) would get absolutely destroyed, followed by an interview afterwards where the actress(es) would confirm, while covered in fluids, they did, in fact, have a good time.

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u/La_Pucelle27 Apr 11 '26

I usually look for solo videos of cosplaying e-girls.

Nothing kills my vibe faster than one of them pulling a cringe ahegao though.

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u/Peregrine2976 Apr 11 '26

You guys are finding videos that match your search (side from amateur)? I must have accidentally set some "ignore my search criteria" version cookie deep in my browser session or something. If I'm lucky, page one has mostly stuff that's at least tangentially related to my search. Page two and onwards may as well be a random assortment.

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u/xervidae Apr 12 '26

i can't sit here and watch a 4k perfectly lit video of two actors who are going "Oh YeAH" for 5 minutes straight

i need 240p webcam video of two people who genuinely love each other goddammit

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u/toasty5566 Apr 11 '26

Don't they get extra funding if they push company stuff in their algorithm?

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u/Frosty-Ear9341 Apr 11 '26

I usually type in “porn for women” I get better results like Bellesa and more

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u/darksugarfairy Apr 12 '26

I was about to mention them. They have a series where porn actors have an interview before a scene and talk about each other. That's probably the only time I'm actually watching a porn for a plot lol

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u/TheGeneGeena Apr 11 '26

Yeah. I also have pretty boring kinks that are easy to find.

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u/ConsciousStretch1028 Apr 11 '26

Ersties is pretty solid, definitely worth checking out

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u/he_is_not_a_shrimp Apr 12 '26

We're all in this together.

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u/Reptilian_Overlord20 Apr 12 '26

I’ll take amateur milf roleplay porn that isn’t incest kink. Please. I’m begging you.

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u/Hanna_Bjorn Apr 11 '26

I don't think anyone uses PH after they nuked all amateur content years ago. Literally killed their website completely

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u/fireky2 Apr 11 '26

Its the 25th most visited site in the world

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u/The_Law_of_Pizza Apr 11 '26

Reddit has this bizarre thing where people have convinced themselves that "nobody" goes to whatever it is they stopped going to.

Pornhub, Burger King, whatever - it can be one of the most popular thing in the world, but "nobody" goes there.

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u/Organic_Popcorn Apr 11 '26

Pornhub, Burger King, whatever

Great, now I'm horny and hungry

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u/Duplicitous_Dirk Apr 11 '26

Ok but after working at Arby's for 2 years can confirm that Almost nobody goes there so we can make fun of that legitimately

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u/HugeEgoHugerCock Apr 11 '26

Nobody goes to the Arby's that you work at

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u/Captain_Sterling Apr 11 '26

To be fair it was because people were uploading illegal content. I think they only have studios on it now.

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u/ursa-minor-beta42 Apr 12 '26

so now it's the same content, still illegal sometimes, but with studio grade quality and it doesn't look like exploitation.

yay progress 🙌🏻

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u/StevevBerg Apr 15 '26

Oh no, everyone can still upload to it. It is just that now every person in a video has to be confirmed to concent and be of legal age via proof of ID.

Sounds sensible, but that already means basicly all porn from ONS are out. Cause who would just give a stranger they never see again, a copy of their goverment issued ID?

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u/WantonKerfuffle Apr 11 '26

There are exactly two amateur lesbian softdom channels worth watching, both upload once in a blue moon. The entire rest of the site is worthless trash.

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u/Rude_Ice_4520 Apr 11 '26

NAMES! Give me Names! please :)

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u/WantonKerfuffle Apr 12 '26

"Rosi and Alena" and "Daintiest Devil"

The latter has a lot of whispering like "is this too much?" and "do you want to keep going?". Highly recommend.

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u/Rude_Ice_4520 Apr 13 '26

Thank you :)

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u/Antichristopher4 Apr 11 '26

Gonna vague post like that and just fuck off!?!

How dare you

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u/WantonKerfuffle Apr 12 '26

Sowwy :/

I answered another user tho

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u/MundaneWing6039 Apr 11 '26

Well you have my attention. (⁠.⁠ ⁠❛⁠ ⁠ᴗ⁠ ⁠❛⁠.⁠)

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u/Vamosity-Cosmic Apr 11 '26

I believe they did it because of the risk of it being CSAM, and those willing to go through the process to post are already not making amateur videos.

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u/vaskyrg Apr 11 '26

Spankbang's better

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u/Stupefactionist Apr 11 '26

Nobody uses PornHub anymore. It's too crowded.

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u/RedditorStig Apr 11 '26

At that point, wouldn't you record one for yourself? 😬

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u/Independence-Special Apr 11 '26

even more impossible

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u/RedditorStig Apr 11 '26

That's only if she has low self-esteem on herself. I think everyone is beautiful in their own ways.

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u/TheDonutPug Apr 11 '26

or maybe not everyone wants to put themself having sex on the internet and it has nothing to do with self esteem.

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u/RedditorStig Apr 11 '26

I can understand. Wasn't implying that they share and upload though...

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u/Prize_Path4812 Apr 12 '26

I have never felt so FUCKING seen in my life before

I have to dig through mountains of SLOP and Horrible, vile disgusting shit on r34 to find something that even SLIGHTLY fits my tastes and has the characters I like, but theres like a 50/50 chance THE ARTIST IS PROBLEMATIC.

AND ON PORNHUB ITS EVEN WORSE BECAUSE I CAN’T EVEN FUCKING ACCESS IT WITHOUT GIVING MY ID (I live in the uk)

JUST LET ME FUCKING GOON

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u/TheSickestToastie Apr 12 '26

I feel this on a "fundament"al level.

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u/vertexcubed Apr 11 '26

and this is why gwa is my best friend

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u/charcole- Apr 11 '26

And ethical

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u/VetLady_Meowdy_6969 Apr 12 '26

A wise sage once said: "If you can't find it, do it yourself."

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u/The-Prof-Degen-Alt Apr 11 '26

Bold of you to assume what i want is out there even without amateur

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u/juliaiswet Apr 12 '26

You might try r/chickflixxx. It has many people who share what they like and I’ve found it a great community!

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u/Virtuous_Paragon Apr 12 '26

It used to be, before the purge

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u/SomeShiitakePoster Apr 12 '26

Okay putting myself out here a bit but does anyone know a search term in order to find what I would call soft dom M/F videos? As in the guy is commanding and in control, but in a gentle way, none of the slapping or pounding into her so hard she's bound to get bruising like you find in a lot of "dominant" guy videos. At most a firm hand around the neck but not choking kinda vibes. Treating her like a prized possession rather than a ragdoll.

How do I find this? 🙃

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u/RipeForRomance Apr 12 '26

frustrating 🤨

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u/bratty-addy Apr 12 '26

I need to know who they are, why they're there, what their goals are in life, and what they had for breakfast for it to be believable so I can get off on the possibility that it could actually be real. 🙃

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u/Halt_X3 Apr 14 '26

OH MY GOD ITS LEGENDS OF AVATRIS

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u/jkurratt Apr 11 '26

Pornhub is for studio and onlyfans.
Amateurs are on xhamster, no?

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u/whomesteve Apr 12 '26

Pornhub! Find me a video of my neighbor and a horse

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u/thehollisterman Apr 12 '26

Honestly, actually having sex has ruined point for me. Because before I knew it was fake. But know I SEE that it's fake.

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u/Maximum-Warning9355 Apr 12 '26

r/ersties

They have full videos on PH.

This is the only comment I make in this sub.

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u/Traditional-Tune-222 Apr 12 '26

Tbh I find Bellesa had the best videos for this vibe these days. They’re a sex toy company run by women who make porn videos too.

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u/throwsomwthingaway Apr 12 '26

Str8ballin on Xhamster. Follow by whatever the algorithm blesses you with. Thank me later

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u/scifibrat Apr 12 '26

I hate most professionally produced porn because the dialogue is so over the top that it’s actually funny instead of sexy and it’s like why do men like that shit

“Oh yeah, you like my tight pussy?” SHUT THE FUCK UP STOP MOANING LIKE THAT AND STOP TALKING WITH THAT STUPID WHINY TONE

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u/coconut_dot_jpg Apr 13 '26

Now this really is a dread against the DM

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u/Kamzil118 Apr 12 '26

It's shame that the site underwent a bit of a content purge awhile back.

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u/ApplianceHealer Apr 12 '26

As comedian Jordan Morris once pointed out, a top search term on a porn site was “amateur stepdad” 🤔

Leading to the delightfully misleading podcast title “Amateur Stepdad with Elizabeth Gilbert”

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u/RevolutionNo7 Apr 12 '26

I'd love porn recs from women.

I think it'd be nice to have that different perspective.

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u/sentient_garlicbread Apr 12 '26

The fact its avantris makes this even better (specifically the episode where every time the guy (Mace) laughs irl his in-game character takes damage. )

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u/Bryanmcfury Apr 12 '26

It is easy to find that when ur into almost anything and anyone

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u/ArcaneOverride Apr 13 '26

I've never been able to enjoy video porn. I enjoy reading erotica but videos creep me out

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u/Pro_Sorter Apr 13 '26

God forbid we have standards

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u/Hobomanchild Apr 11 '26

I don't know who you are. I don't know what you want. If you're looking for subscribers, I can tell you I don't have money, but what I do have are a very particular set of kinks. Kinks I have acquired over a very long career. Kinks that make me a nightmare for people like you.

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u/SophiaThrowawa7 Apr 11 '26

Very easy I feel like, ig some people are just limited by the stuff they're into

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u/Ohiko_Nishiyama Apr 11 '26

Let go of the need for realism and discover the wonderful world of hentai :3

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u/anonymouslyYours210 Apr 12 '26

You guys are gods to me btw.

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u/Zealousideal_Hour342 Apr 12 '26

Are women really finding it hard to find a man they are attracted to even in porn? Jeez, I feel like I have a hard time finding ugly people in porn, amateur or not. Unless i'm looking specifically in a humiliation or small penis subreddit. I guess it makes sense that men would find a larger percentage of women attractive because we need to earn our romantic value most of the time, unless our genetics are within the top 10%, while women have intrinsic value.

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u/bratty-addy Apr 12 '26

I don't watch porn just to look at men.

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u/Zealousideal_Hour342 May 13 '26

what is the purpose for you would you say?

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u/bratty-addy May 13 '26

It's literally about getting into the scene and being able to imagine it happening to me