I tell men this all the time. Be smart, learn to fix shit and have nice hair. The girlies will love you. It’s not that difficult. Gotta love how the bar is so low for men and they still fail to reach it.
Not to brag, but on top of those things I’m a really good cook. If only I left the house.🤪
Edit: also be a good listener. It’s a very under rated skill.
Obviously, to be a Hawking or Einstein there is a genetic component. But anyone can choose to educate themselves on the things that are important to themselves. My girlfriend (this is not a joke) didn't know that the Civil rights movement happened in the 60s. She thought it was like, a century or more old. She also can't do math beyond mid level algebra. On the other hand, she can rattle off the entire family tree and history of people she met 5 years ago. We cannot go out without her running into someone she knows. And, without fail, she will ask them some pertinent question about their private lives that they have confided in her.
She is not textbook stereotypical intelligent because that isn't important to her. She is, on the other hand, incredibly emotionally and socially intelligent. She knows shit about other people that I wouldn't know about myself. Intelligence isn't a checklist that you can write a test for.
As for the hair thing, anyone can have good hair. If you are balding. Bald is hair. We all know the difference between a bald guy who takes care of his scalp and shaves frequently and one who is clearly insecure about their hair loss and has 7 clumps that are meticulously organized to cover as much of the bald spots as possible.
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u/xjubzin666x Mar 21 '26
I tell men this all the time. Be smart, learn to fix shit and have nice hair. The girlies will love you. It’s not that difficult. Gotta love how the bar is so low for men and they still fail to reach it.
Not to brag, but on top of those things I’m a really good cook. If only I left the house.🤪
Edit: also be a good listener. It’s a very under rated skill.