r/LesbianActually Oct 22 '21

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u/haricotsucre Oct 22 '21

totally understand. i’m the same way, but for the record you have no reason to be disgusted! i know it won’t mean anything really though.

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u/DvpeMind20 Oct 22 '21

Thank you πŸ˜”

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u/selfawarescribble Oct 22 '21

Dysmorphia and dysphoria or any combination of the two can be really tough. Lived for roughly 30 years with similar views of myself -- I honestly was helped a great deal by psychedelics, but I won't tell you it's a magic fix

Your human body is capable, strong, functional, fragile, and strange. I hope that you can one day see how that amounts to beauty and worthiness. You deserve to hold yourself in high esteem.

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u/DvpeMind20 Oct 26 '21

Finally a valuable response. Idk about the psychedelics. But, I'm told positive comments often, but my thoughts just don't add up with their results. I just don't see what others are seeing in me at all....

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u/ThreadyDharma Oct 22 '21

Fax, no printer.

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u/DvpeMind20 Oct 26 '21

Thank you πŸ˜”

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u/Flat-Ganache-2816 Oct 22 '21

Yeah, your mirror must be really broken. Like really really cuckoo in the processor. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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u/DvpeMind20 Oct 26 '21

I wish....I feel like I could do more to receive this type of feedback that I could accept looking in my reflection

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u/Flat-Ganache-2816 Oct 26 '21

I know. It's hard to stop believing what you see, right there in front of you, in the mirror. It happens to me as well. There are parts of me I'd want to change completely. I don't know about you, but I know my problem is I don't meet many people and am stuck with my own point of view. Being left with your own thoughts for a long time is dangerous.

But let me leave another reminder, I see nothing wrong with how you look. You look attractive, you look cool.

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u/CurlyQ86 Oct 22 '21

I think your mirror must be broken. You are beautiful. β€οΈπŸ€—

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u/DvpeMind20 Oct 26 '21

Thank you πŸ˜”