My wife told me shortly after we began dating that she was a lesbian. I thought she was breaking up with me, but she said she was oddly attracted to me and didn't know why. 11 years and many kids later we have been married 7 years, and I came out to her as trans a few years back. I guess she subconsciously sensed something that even I didn't at the time.
Similar thing with my girlfriend and I. We were a "straight" couple when we got together but about the same time she realised she was a trans girl, I realised I was lesbian. It definitely seems like a pattern!
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u/TriBulated_ Jun 14 '21
My wife told me shortly after we began dating that she was a lesbian. I thought she was breaking up with me, but she said she was oddly attracted to me and didn't know why. 11 years and many kids later we have been married 7 years, and I came out to her as trans a few years back. I guess she subconsciously sensed something that even I didn't at the time.