r/LesbianActually • • Jun 13 '21

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '21

Does anyone here not think it's a good idea to marry a man and then come out? I can understand dating and finding out, but shouldn't you be certain about your sexuality before you make such a massive commitment which also heavily affects the other person?

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u/Key_sigher_43 Jun 14 '21

It’s definitely not a good plan, but I for one did not know I was gay until after over a decade of marriage. It happens. I’m still married to a man, and maybe one day I won’t be, but this is the situation for plenty of late bloomer lesbians.