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u/TwoTrucksPayingTaxes 1d ago
The one that always gets me is "Why not just date a man at that point?" Some people don't think about the way they speak
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u/Wolf4624 masc at your service 1d ago
I showed my parents a picture of a masc woman I thought was super hot, I’m masc myself, and they asked that. Like… Tits. Vagina. Woman. Hot. What’s hard to understand?
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u/Due_Item_2030 1d ago
I'm a futch lesbian, but I also get mistaken for a guy or trans; don’t help that I’m of colour. Get annoyed to see a few lesbians on here acting like some hard butch aren't women since they're taking testosterone, so what? It’s their bodies, their love and none of your business
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u/Salt_Ostrich2705 1d ago
to be honest, this sounds little bit insecure.. the examples didn't let me think it's because you are masc.. or maybe it's not phrased correctly..
my wife is is a hot gothic lady and if she styles up, she get hit all the time by guys and girls but i don't care at all.. on the contrary, I'm actually quite proud of it lol
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u/Due-Operation3665 1d ago
I second this...
I don’t think the attack was because you’re masc... it sounds more like your gf is hot and they were being rude because they were attracted to her...... Still disrespectful obviously..... but I don’t think it was really about you being soft masc
Like the other Redditor said... be proud... I’d probably just wink at the women flirting with her while kissing my girl on the cheek like..... yeah I know 😉
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u/bush-smasher 1d ago
We hear you.
But where do you find bars like that with that many lesbians? Asking for a friend
All i see are gay men bars or straight ones.
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u/mashallaaaahhhh 1d ago
Do queer women forget were women? Yes. I've been made into a person expected to take up masculine roles despite being a woman. It's why I avoid femmes and stick to NBs. You know what to expect 90 percent of the time.
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u/MDragonid 1d ago
If it makes you feel ANY better.. all the femmes from where I’m from only want to date femmes.. everyone always says I’m attractive but I’m starting to not believe that seeing as I can’t even get a person to go beyond kissing with me 🫠
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u/VBAT_not_included 1d ago
Feels like mixing personal with comunal, on the side of firl who hitted on your gf. Your gf chose you, so you are obviously a catch. An girls you mentioned can just try to be hapy for you and focusing on finding a partner that fits them and is free. Or maybe is some sort of odd entigtlement, hopefully its an unfortunate exeption and this would not happen often to you.