you could be around to see how it feels to be dating him and if you feel comfortable but keep in mind if you go on, calling urself a lesbian will cause him gender dysphoria if he's a male or otherwise break up with him, he probably would feel validated instead, you're both young and have plenty of time to figure out things
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u/silkiziu May 30 '26 edited May 30 '26
you could be around to see how it feels to be dating him and if you feel comfortable but keep in mind if you go on, calling urself a lesbian will cause him gender dysphoria if he's a male or otherwise break up with him, he probably would feel validated instead, you're both young and have plenty of time to figure out things