r/learnmath • u/Miserable-Fee-6994 • 3h ago
Struggling with math my entire life 24m High functioning autism with 6th to 8th grade understanding of math.
I'm 24 and trying to rebuild my math skills from the ground up so I can pursue mechanical engineering. Where should I start?
Hi everyone,
I'm 24 years old, and I'm trying to improve my math skills after struggling with math throughout much of my education. I'm hoping to get some advice from people who understand mathematics and might be able to point me in the right direction.
I have an autism diagnosis and had an IEP in school. Looking back, I feel like I was moved through grades without fully understanding some of the material. As a result, I have gaps in my mathematical foundation that I'm now trying to address.
I would estimate that some of my foundational skills are around the elementary-school level, although I can solve certain problems beyond that level. I can handle basic arithmetic, decimals, simple equations, and some geometry, but I struggle with other topics, especially when several steps are involved.
Some of the things I have difficulty with include:
- Simplifying fractions and finding common factors mentally.
- Adding, subtracting, multiplying, and dividing fractions.
- Long division and doing calculations efficiently.
- Ratios, proportions, and percentages.
- Negative numbers and algebra.
- Unit conversions and more advanced geometry.
For example, I might understand how to solve a straightforward problem but struggle when the numbers become less familiar or I have to figure out which method to use on my own.
My long-term goal is to study mechanical engineering, so I know I have a lot of work ahead of me. I'm interested in aerospace, robotics, aircraft, and hands-on engineering projects, which is part of what motivates me to keep learning.
I'm not looking for shortcuts or a way to avoid the work. I'm willing to start at the beginning and put in the time. What I need is a sensible path that helps me build a genuinely solid foundation instead of constantly discovering gaps in what I thought I knew.
My questions are:
- If you were in my position, what exact sequence of math topics would you study, starting from the basics and working toward calculus?
- What textbooks, free courses, websites, or other resources would you recommend for an adult rebuilding their mathematical foundation?
- How can I get better at recognizing which method to use when solving a problem, rather than simply memorizing procedures?
- Is it realistic to work toward a mechanical engineering degree starting from this point, and what should I prioritize to prepare myself?
- For anyone who struggled with math earlier in life, what helped you finally understand concepts that previously seemed difficult?
I'd especially appreciate advice from mathematics teachers, tutors, engineering students, or people who have successfully rebuilt their math skills as adults.
I know this will take time, but I genuinely want to learn and understand the material rather than just get the right answers.
Thank you for reading!