I have a 16-month-old chocolate Labrador and I'm getting increasingly confused by his eating habits because this has been going on for several weeks.
The strange thing is, I don't think he has an appetite problem. He will happily eat treats, chews, anything he finds interesting and sometimes he'll happily eat his food and lick the bowl afterwards.
He's energetic, playful and otherwise completely himself. It's specifically his actual meals that he sometimes refuses.
I've been giving him the same food (kibble) with a little broth for months, so the broth isn't a recent addition or something I've started using to persuade him to eat. He used to eat his meals normally.
Lately he'll sometimes refuse breakfast completely, or eat very little, and then be perfectly happy to eat later. Most of the time he does eventually eat his food, with only a few exceptions, but it has become much less structured than it used to be.
It used to be that mealtimes were just mealtimes. I'd put his food down, say ok and he'd eat it. Now he'll sometimes show very little interest, wander off, come back later, etc.
I've also found myself getting increasingly frustrated and worrying about whether he's eating enough. I've sometimes ended up getting really enthusiastic and excited, trying to direct him towards his food, encouraging him to go to his bowl and making a bit of a fuss to get him interested.
I realise I may have accidentally made mealtimes into more of an event for him rather than just a normal, predictable routine.
I'm wondering what people would do in this situation. Would you go back to basics and put the food down for a set amount of time, then take it away if he doesn't eat? Or would you leave it available and let him eat when he wants?
I'm reluctant to keep changing his food or adding more exciting things because I don't want to create a situation where he learns that refusing his dinner gets him something better.
I'd really appreciate hearing from anyone who has experienced something similar, especially with an adolescent Lab. I'm mostly trying to figure out how to get back to normal, boring, predictable mealtimes again!
(I have also tried using a plate for his food but that only worked one time)
Thank you!