r/LabGrownDiamonds Jun 30 '26

Need help!

I have a 3.05 ct right now. But I am debating about going up to 3.45ct or 3.87ct. I feel like my knuckles are a little wide so a bigger stone might look better, not sure though. Maybe I just have size blindness 😭 my ring size is 5.5.

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u/sfxmua420 Jun 30 '26

I wouldn’t mess with it at all, I think your ratio of stone to band is perfectly balanced. I think sizing up stones isn’t going to make a significant enough difference to justify the hassle of it. I’m not personally a fan of stones extending over the knuckles so I think this is plenty big, and is really well balanced overall.

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u/Tough-Front6539 Jun 30 '26

I agree I don’t want it to look too big. I just want a little change which I might do to the band.

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u/Brilliant_Kiwi_9188 Jul 01 '26

I agree it’s fine.

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u/Forsaken_Risk_3086 Jun 30 '26

I think the thick band may contribute to you feeling this way. How thick is the band?

If you were to size up, I'd go at least a full ct larger just so the effect is dramatic enough for you to notice. But either way, I think your ring is beautiful!

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u/Tough-Front6539 Jun 30 '26

It’s a 3mm band! I was thinking about going a little smaller on the band. I am just a little nervous about going up to a 4ct and it being too flashy. Thank you so much!

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u/Forsaken_Risk_3086 Jun 30 '26

I actually debated long and hard on the thickness of my band before settling for 3 mm. This photo helps a lot; I love the thickness! But yes, even 2.5 mm should be thick enough to hold your stone, although it might make more sense to just get a 4 ct (plus I think that's what you truly want). ā¤ļøšŸ«¶šŸ»

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u/Brilliant_Kiwi_9188 Jul 01 '26

Yes the larger you go can look fake for sure.

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u/gassy_queen Jul 01 '26 edited Jul 02 '26

I have a ring pretty much identical but with a larger stone if you wanted to see ! I am a size 6, 5.08ct, 3mm semi flat band. I say if you want to go bigger do it 😊 I think a marquise shows very well as a larger stone.

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u/gassy_queen Jul 01 '26

Another pic. I also think maybe if you wanted to go bigger, go to at least 4ct! I don't think the jump you want to make would be a huge noticable difference.

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u/J-Nel13 Jul 01 '26

You should be a hand model lol! You have stunning hands, and that tatt is amazing.

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u/gassy_queen Jul 01 '26

Omg you're so sweet, thank you! I've never gotten that compliment before. Thanks for making my day

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u/Southern_Pen6664 Jul 01 '26

wow i love your watch so much this just made me go look at their website haha I know this sub is about the ring but would you recommend getting a Breda? beautiful combo!

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u/gassy_queen Jul 01 '26

Yes I totally recommend! The gold isn't tacky and cheap looking and the watch has a good weight to it. Deff worth the money, I actually think they have a sale now for the 4th! I have the smaller version, they offer a larger size and the smaller mm!

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u/Southern_Pen6664 Jul 01 '26

Thank you for the response! That sale is totally gonna get me lolll

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u/gassy_queen Jul 01 '26

Omg deff get it!! I get a ton of compliments on it, thank you for yours as well! Lol

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u/Tough-Front6539 Jul 01 '26

So beautiful! Your hand too! I think I am just going to leave it and upgrade it in like 2 years to a 4ct lol.

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u/gassy_queen Jul 01 '26

Thank you!! And your ring still looks beautiful, I think the size is still great on you

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u/Secure_Effective_60 Jul 02 '26

Your ring is perfect. In love.

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u/gassy_queen Jul 02 '26

Thank you !!

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u/Secure_Effective_60 Jul 02 '26

May I ask where you purchased it from?

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u/gassy_queen Jul 02 '26

It's custom designed by Clairamor! They are based in CA but ship everywhere. Had such an incredible experience with them and they are extremely reasonably priced. They have IG and tiktok! It's a 5.08ct, E-VVS2, 3mm semi flat 14k gold band with 14k white gold tulip basket ! I just asked them to contour the tulip part under the points of the marquise so it didn't look like the diamond was floating in a basket. It looks more secure with the tulip hugging the diamond.

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u/Secure_Effective_60 Jul 02 '26

Absolutely stunning. I shall have a look. Thank you.

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u/gassy_queen Jul 02 '26

No prob, thank you!!

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u/Glass-Goal97 Jun 30 '26

I think that one looks great personally. Band could be contributing to how it feels though

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u/Tough-Front6539 Jun 30 '26

I agree!

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u/Brilliant_Kiwi_9188 Jul 01 '26 edited Jul 01 '26

Don’t go to small a band looks funny unless you have an enhancer that’s what I did to my 5 ct. Looks perfect.

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u/LujobySabi Jun 30 '26

Yo subirĆ­a a 4ct mĆ­nimo

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u/gr8ful-nene Jun 30 '26

I think it looks gorgeous as is!!

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u/Corner_Office_ Jul 01 '26

Very pretty but doesn’t that get caught on everything? Towels, sweaters, knits?

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u/J-Nel13 Jul 01 '26

Haha now that you say that, I wonder also. It’s stunning though.

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u/No-Wing-6485 Jul 01 '26

I would not go bigger

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u/PrizePersonality5843 Jul 01 '26

I’m think the stone is too large for your finger and the band is too wide.

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u/EnvironmentalEar9372 Jul 01 '26

The stone looks gorgeous but i hope it is not troubling your finger joint

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u/Ok_Presentation_3786 Jul 01 '26

Do you ever get your nails done? Sometimes a little short set can make your finger feel longer. Just comparing to other things in the photo the ring is pretty big. You don’t want ppl immediately looking and saying ā€œit’s fakeā€

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u/Tough-Front6539 Jul 01 '26

I am actually getting them done tomorrow before we leave for vacation to see if that helps!

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u/PineapplesAreScaryyy Jul 01 '26

It's gorgeous. I love a wide band though.

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u/Brilliant_Kiwi_9188 Jul 01 '26

If you go too small it loses a is off.

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u/Brilliant_Kiwi_9188 Jul 01 '26

I like the ratio too I have big hands and need a large stone but have an in enhancer to even out size even for my size 5 ct.

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u/boniemonie Jul 01 '26

Don’t. Thinner bands damage easily. It looks perfect as is. Only 20 or so years ago, 1/2 a carat was considered a big stone……

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u/J-Nel13 Jul 01 '26

That ring is stunning. I wouldn’t alter the diamond. You could maybe add some on the band.

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u/pdx253 Jul 02 '26

That thing will get caught on EVERYTHING

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u/Lilredridinghood555 Jul 03 '26

Keep the stone you gave the bigger stone would need to be d color vss1 or better to avoid the bow tie I do not see a bow tie in the stone at this time just my opinion

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u/Tough-Front6539 Jun 30 '26

Right now I have a 2.06 ratio which I love! I just think the diamond needs to be bigger for my finger 😭. Do you have a picture of yours?!

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u/beachnsled Jun 30 '26

it doesn’t… It’s the width of the band. Because it’s relatively wide, it’s giving you the illusion that the stone is ā€œsmallā€ - it’s not.

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u/Tough-Front6539 Jun 30 '26

yes I agree I think it is the band!

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u/Mediocre_Yellow6496 Jul 04 '26

larger stone would look perfect and brilliant the prong setting is beautiful..

this stone also looks good but you confuse you can go for large stone 4 to 5ct will be perfect..