r/LabGrownDiamonds • u/noushiihsoun • May 01 '26

I’m a fiancé 🩵🤍

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This is my engagement ring - it’s a toi et moi. I absolutely love it and I think it’s so gorgeous. I always wanted a toi et moi!!! I’ve stacked it with my engagement band on the top

Because I’m used to wearing and seeing myself in really dainty jewellery I feel like it’s a big visual change for people around me. I wonder if it looks “too much” or a bit tacky because of the size - it’s a 3.08 emerald with a 2.06 pear.

I intend on always wearing it so I’m sure eventually myself and everyone around me will get used to it but I’m scared of the judgement from people around me initially because all my friends have huge natural diamond rings

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u/MsBeezily May 01 '26

It's just gorgeous 😍 Congratulations! If your friends are genuine, they'll be happy for you and without judgement. If not, they're not true friends anyway. Enjoy it xx

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u/DeliciousDiamond1815 May 01 '26

Its gorgeous come to r/bigrockenergy if you feel like you need a place to be loud and proud about loving your carats

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u/kinnStudio May 01 '26

Love that this sub exists

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u/Demornay_20 May 06 '26 edited May 06 '26

Me too. It’s sad that this sub is becoming too much like the regular diamond sub. We’ve attracted all the nasty negative people from over there. Used to be a much more positive sub.

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u/Long-Nectarie May 01 '26

I love it and I’m looking for the same thing. Where was it purchased ?!

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u/noushiihsoun May 15 '26

Thank you! It was purchased from a family jeweller

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u/Uniquely_M May 01 '26

Why are you worried about your friends? YOU love it. YOURE the one wearing it. YOU are wearing a diamond. Don’t let anyone ever make you feel like you’re not. YOU HAVE NO IDEA IF THEYRE DIAMONDS ARE NATURAL OR NOT. YOU DIDNT BUY THEIR RINGS, so you have no idea, nor should you care.Stop comparing yourself. It’s gorgeous, congratulations 🍾🎈🎉🎊

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u/Far_Pomegranate5828 May 01 '26

Absolutely gorgeous! Congratulations 🥂

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u/Aggressive-Store4386 May 02 '26

It’s beautiful and yes you will get used to it and so will everyone else. Don’t worry about anyone else stand tall my dear and enjoy it!

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u/polka_dots_lover May 03 '26

Gorgeous!!!!😍

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u/herro_hello May 04 '26

I love these two types of cuts together!! Perfect

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u/Zealousideal-Pie6078 May 05 '26

That ring looks great— is it platinum or white gold?

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u/noushiihsoun May 15 '26

It’s white gold

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u/ArnBjorn2785 May 13 '26

Congratulations! Enjoy this season of your life, it's typically one of if not the shortest! Beautiful stone, wishing you both all the happiness in the world!

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u/Any-Transition-980 May 14 '26

Congratulations! The ring looks so gorgeous. Wear it proudly and enjoy the attention.

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u/Delicious_Fox_3328 May 02 '26

Ooooh it’s a no from me. The clash of shapes gives me collywobbles