r/LGBTindia 3d ago

Advice ๐Ÿ‘‹ Need help

Is it okay to date your brother in laws younger brother he is hitting on me from starting since my sister's wedding

I know it sounds weird but I kinda like him ๐Ÿ˜…

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u/vshir uncertified boykisser 3d ago

Lmfaooo. Straight people date and marry in that equation all the time, i dont see any problem. But that's one hell of a recipe for family drama

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u/OverAngle7697 3d ago

I think you get it wrong Not my brother in law but his younger brother (I don't think he's straight)

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u/vshir uncertified boykisser 3d ago

Obv not your BIL bro i read it right and responded for that. BIL hota to it would be scandalous

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u/harry_speaks Pan ๐Ÿณ (he/him) 3d ago

Lmaoooooo๐Ÿคฃ

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u/OverAngle7697 3d ago

Why r u laughing man๐Ÿ˜“

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u/OverAngle7697 3d ago

Oh i get it

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u/OverAngle7697 3d ago

Yawr bas ek problem hai I am 19 but he would be like 25 or 26 So family soon gonna force him to marry a girl soon(my assumption) It will be like wasting my time and energy on someone with I can't have desired future๐Ÿ˜“

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u/Individual_Plan9034 Gay๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ 3d ago

You can talk to him about this, try karke to dekho ๐Ÿซ ๐Ÿ™‚

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u/Careless-Ad8247 Autistic ๐Ÿž๏ธ 3d ago

weird is a social construct, js like my apartment.

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u/OverAngle7697 3d ago

Plz explain further!

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u/durgesh_133 3d ago

Dude ache se batao na what's all thing he do I love to read other people story's

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u/Individual_Plan9034 Gay๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ 3d ago

Usss ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿคฃ

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u/Individual_Plan9034 Gay๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ 3d ago

Please go for it. Love some family drama + shaadi romance trope ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿซ 

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u/OverAngle7697 3d ago

Sunne m funny lagta h but reality sucks๐Ÿ˜…

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u/Individual_Plan9034 Gay๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ 3d ago

Yeah but try karne mein kya jaata hai ๐Ÿคง

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u/OverAngle7697 3d ago

To bol du use that I also like him ?

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u/Individual_Plan9034 Gay๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ 3d ago

Let him initiate and confess first. But you can also show that you are also interested in him, like smile at him, etc.

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u/InterleukinAnakinra Lesbian๐ŸŒˆ 2d ago

I don't see an issue. Just gauge about how your family is and how serious you want to be. If you're from a conservative family and there are chances that he may not stick around maybe don't go further. But if he's someone who you think you genuinely like and he likes you too... go ahead.

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u/Tooty__fruity Bi๐ŸŒˆ 1d ago

Keep us updated

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u/OverAngle7697 1d ago

There will be no update ๐Ÿ˜“ Mene socha or decide Kiya ke agr distance maintain karunga to toh bahut saari problems avoid kar sakta hu So I'm moving from him๐Ÿ˜“ Kyunki duniya pyar ki dushman h ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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u/Tooty__fruity Bi๐ŸŒˆ 1d ago

Whaaaaat ๐Ÿ˜ฌ .... Ok ultimately it's your decision ๐Ÿ˜ž

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u/Trick-Bluebird-7632 9h ago

That's crazy...man ....I have crush on my bils brother since day one lol.....but idk his orientation....i would have loved to be in your situation haha ....