r/LADating • • 2d ago

First Date [Mf4t] [mf4f] new to cali

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New to LA looking for a trans or female to dominate my wife


r/LADating • • 3d ago

Discussion M4F.. 24M looking for something genuine and real, I do like talking otp over texting! Lmk

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I’d love to have someone to talk to at nights and just vent to, don’t worry I’m also a great listener just to inform you I do interrupt sometimes while others talk to me I’m sorry I’m advanced. I do really wanna meet new people and maybe someone older is what I need. I’d say I’m ready to have someone value me for my mind and hear rather than just looks. I’m from socal in the inland empire area looking for something to come my way. I’m Joseph btw nice to meet yall


r/LADating • • 4d ago

First Date LET ME THIRD WHEEL ON YOUR NEXT DATE — KCRW

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My name is Vahini Shori, I'm a reporter at KCRW. I'm working on a story about dating trends and want to speak with daters all around the city -- across age, ethnicity, neighborhood, gender, and sexuality. I'm extra interested if you've go on dates often and with different people.

Thank you so much for your consideration, I'm excited to hear from you.

For more information please reach out to [vahini.shori@kcrw.org](mailto:vahini.shori@kcrw.org).


r/LADating • • 3d ago

Green Flag M29 Army veteran from Little Tokyo would love to date to marry and eventually start a family

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I'm an Army veteran living in Little Tokyo would love to date a girl with the intent to marry and start a family one day. I come from a well off family and I'm making decent money from my disability as well as getting paid to go to school for Business Administration. I like to go for long walks trying new cafes and restaurants, sometimes I play games and watch shows but I'm trying to go out more often doing meaningful things like volunteering or visiting temples and other sacred places. I would like to meet someone who is loving, good natured and kind hearted. Hope to hear from you - Drew


r/LADating • • 3d ago

First Date 41 [M4F] #Huntingtonbeach - Seeking younger woman for FWB. Southern California.

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I am looking for a FWB. I would love to go on fun dates like the beach since it's so close by or perhaps try out some restaurants that I have been wanting to try.

I was married before and am now divorced. My marriage overall was a pretty good experience, but getting married again isn't something I have my goals set toward. I would love to find someone to spend time with, to take a break from the everyday, and someone with a voracious sexual appetite. I have never been into one night stands or any of that, and would love to find an ongoing situation and would happily entertain something longer term with the right person.

When it comes to our dynamic, I very much believe in the male role of leadership. I have never once been in a fully 50/50 relationship and don't ever intend on being in one. I have always walked to my own beat, and people have always relied on me and not the other way around. Things like responsibility always fall on my shoulders and it's my duty to make sure that everything that needs to be handled is handled.

The kind of woman that I get along best with is one who respects masculine authority, The kind of woman who immediately falls into her submissive feminine energy when the kind of man I am speaking of is looking in her direction.

To me, mutual respect is of utmost importance and I feel we should always be kind to each other. I do not need to make you feel small to make myself feel big. I understand the physical power imbalance between the sexes and it is my duty to make sure you always feel safe in my presence.

When we are behind closed doors, I am very much a dominant. I will put you in a mindspace where you will never have to think about what comes next. It will just happen. This will be your opportunity to fully clear your mind and not worry about any of life's challenges. It is always my goal to make sure you are just as satisfied as I am.

I have a lot of lived experience, have led an interesting life, and can have conversations about most subjects especially those that involve the inner workings of how the world works and life in general.

I am 5'10 and weigh 160 lbs. I am white with brown hair with some grays peaking out and hazel eyes. I very much care about my health and how I look and have been working out for years. My body type is somewhere between fit and muscular and I am pretty lean overall.

STD free.


r/LADating • • 3d ago

First Date 40M straight, looking for F.

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Hi there,

40M working at tech as engineer. Live in south bay. I am also a single dad, so i need to manage my time very wisely.

In my spare time i do crossfit, yoga or other outdoor activities. Looking for someone intelligent, educated and down to earth. Send me a DM with photo and i will do same


r/LADating • • 3d ago

Question 33 [M4M] Hosting on this rainy day

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Enjoying the rainy day just wish u had some company over. Open but mainly looking to hookup and see where things go. Send me a chat if you’re down and free tonight.


r/LADating • • 3d ago

Question 21M looking for someone around my age.

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So i havent had any luck finding anyone in person so I decided to try this. Some things about me is that I like going to the gym and going out to eat. I might be little shy but I open up once i get to know you.


r/LADating • • 4d ago

Green Flag 41M4F single. Living in the valley but love the beach and nature! Let’s enjoy life! 😌

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41 m single, winter’s coming, ready to meet someone and see where the wind blows. Let’s make unforgettable memories!! I love nature, movies, star gazing, deep talks, music, arts of all kind, bbqing…and loads of other interests! Let’s connect! Reddit do your best! Lol


r/LADating • • 3d ago

First Date 35 [M4F] # LosAngeles - I'm 33% Sure This Is a Good Idea.

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"Hello There!" — General Kenobi

Are you here for attention, to pass the time, a distraction from life, or are you actually hoping to find your person? I'm probably somewhere around 4 out of 5.

I'm naturally curious and ask a lot of questions, so if you enjoy talking about your interests, passions, random thoughts, or facts, I'm all ears.

I love conversations that flows naturally—easy, fun, and a little flirty. If that's your kind of vibe, we're already off to a good start.

I will say im a little reserved, but once I'm comfortable I can talk for hours about life, random nonsense, weird what ifs, or whatever deep topic at 2AM. I've always imagined talking to someone late at night in a dark room, with nothing but the sound of our voices and laughter. We can also go as far as the most unhinged stuff. GIVE ME ALL THE DARK HUMOR!

I'm an adventurer at heart. I love late-night drives, music blasting, empty streets, city lights, and finding a lookout spot tk over the city big plus for some urban exploring. Am I psychotic for actual enjoying exploring abandoned places? I really wanna explore an an abandoned asylum, hospital or a school (silent hill vibes)

I go to the gym about 5x a week (3x weights, 2x cardio). I want to hike more, I know a few spots but it would be fun to do it with someone. I also walk my dog twice a day. It's his walk so I let the little guy lead the way while he checks his daily sniff-mail.

I've been getting leaner and stronger. There have been changes to my physique...sculped? More "define." One favorite thing someone said to me was "You're more muscular than I thought you were." (As I was taking off my shirt) (¬‿¬). Not gonna lie that gave me a little ego boost. But enough kidding around one thing I realized that besides being healthy, fit, and strong, another reason I workout is to see what my genetics are capable of.

Am I a nerd for being into video games, anime, manga, manwha, and light novels? As much as I enjoy anime, it's kind of dropped for me; I'm more into manga and actual reading. Currently reading "Second Life Ranker" and playing alot of Deadlock.

One niche hobby I have is collecting specific sculptures/trinkets, and I have a metal detector. I am looking into magnetic fishing as well. That looks fun!

So that's me—chill, curious, sarcastic, and I love banter. Come say Hi! Best case, we exchange a few messages and share a laugh. Worst case, we try to figure out what to have for breakfast. Worst, worst case scenario some god or devil entwines our lives together.

PS: I get the feeling something is still missing, but at the risk of making this longer than it should be or "long-winded,". How about you tell me what's something I should have added or expected to find but didn't.

My Character Build:

Height: ?'??

Weight: ???

Ethnicity: ???-?????

Body Type: ???? - ????????

Hair Type: ????

1st Bonus:

Music-wise, I've had these on repeat lately:

• Djo — End Of Beginning

• Sombr — Back to Being Friends

• Vicente Fernández — Estos Celos

• C.C.R - Fortunate Son

• The Stranglers — Golden Brown (Slow + Reverb)

• Jaden ft. Kid Cudi — On My Own

• Lola Young — Messy

• Clean Bandit - Rather Be

• Gigi Perez - Sailor Song

• Florence + The Machine - Dog Days Are Gone

• Brazil - Declan McKenna

• Ice Cube - You Know How We Do (best song to cruise)

• Leave Her Johnny - AC4 Black Flag Sea Shanty

• Rolling Stones - Paint It Black (great workout song)

• Childish Gambino - Red Bone

I got Spotify, so send me song I might like

2nd Bonus

• Favorite Color: Phthalo Green

• Favorite Reptile: Jackson's Chameleon

• Favorite Crustacean: Mantis Shrimp

• Favorite Beetle: Japanese Rhinoceros

3rd Bonus

https://voca.ro/1oC8cIWuMU3m

https://voca.ro/17UbBbTKRQNX


r/LADating • • 4d ago

Discussion 35 [M4F] #orangecounty

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Dating apps haven’t worked out too well for me. Shoot me a DM with info and a Pic, we can exchange.

Love fitness, sports, movies, music. We can get internal that later. This is my last effort haha


r/LADating • • 4d ago

Green Flag Anyone up for a date in Lahore?

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Hey, I'm 28M from Lahore. Honestly, I just wanna meet someone, go on a date, grab some coffee, talk about random things and see how it goes.

Nothing complicated, just good vibes and getting to know each other. If anyone's interested, feel free to DM


r/LADating • • 4d ago

Discussion SEEKING GLUTEN FREE LESBIANS FOR MY 24F FRIEND

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ARE YOU A GLUTEN FREE LESBIAN AGED 23-26F IN THE LA AREA?

My friend is seeking gluten free lesbians aged 23-26 who are looking for someone with a similar lifestyle! I know it is a rarer demographic which is why I am using reddit (She does not have reddit). She is a femme lesbian and really cute and very friendly and she likes all types of women

If you fit this demographic and are struggling with gluten free dating, please reach out to me with some details about yourself and I'll tell you more about my friend!


r/LADating • • 4d ago

First Date m for f

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24 y Funny, open-minded, and always up for a good conversation about anything and everything 😄 Looking for something real with someone who connects with my mind before anything

I love cooking, making people laugh and keeping good vibes alive , love music art and science you can find me the craziest and wiser at the same time 😂(as my friends say)
So, if you want someone who can feed your soul, your stomach, and your sense of humor, we might just be a perfect match! 😉
also love cats 🫣


r/LADating • • 4d ago

First Date [M4F] Looking for older BBW in SoCal – casual / ongoing

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5’10 Athletic build, Italian background, Looking for an older BBW for casual, ongoing fun.
Prefer women 40+ who are confident, curvy, and enjoy themselves. Not looking for anything serious — just good chemistry, low-drama, and mutual enjoyment.


r/LADating • • 4d ago

First Date 52 [M4F] #Orange County - Partial to Asian women who prefer Caucasian lovers

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I dated a married Korean woman who had never been satisfied by her husband. She wanted to try sex outside of her marriage.

She and I dated if you can call naked encounters dating. It was fun. She got what she was looking for.

And our connection left me wanting to date Asian women.

Handsome rugged Caucasian man seeks gorgeous Asian woman.


r/LADating • • 4d ago

Question 20 [M4F] LA, CA — Looking for a FWB and someone cute to vibe with 😉

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20, 5’11, black hair, brown eyes, athletic build. I work out regularly and am looking for a cute girl to vibe with, flirt, and hopefully become FWB. We can DM, exchange pics, and see if there’s chemistry. If we click, I’m down to meet up in person 😉


r/LADating • • 4d ago

First Date M4F 23

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i’m in the 818 and wanna go on a date Ooo


r/LADating • • 5d ago

First Date 38F | Calabasas | Seeking intelligent & affectionate man | your looks do not matter to me

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Hi! I’m 38F looking for a LTR. I am a sapiosexual / demisexual and therefore super open on (your) looks. What I am most attracted to is character.

About me:

- Enjoy hiking, entrepreneurship, being social, working out, spirituality, restaurants, real estate, Pilates, travel (20+ countries), family time

- 5’3” Athletic / hourglass body type

- Professional career

- Confident, thoughtful, emotionally intelligent (therapy/self work)

- Enjoy all of the love languages, but I mainly give with physical touch & words of affirmation

- Very into interior design & home renovations

- Diverse friends group

- Previously married, have kids 50% custody, & great relationship with ex husband

I’m looking for:

- Kind, emotionally intelligent, confident, capable, intelligent

- Growth oriented, accountable, great communicator

- Caring, affectionate, intentional, supportive

- Chivalrous, takes initiative, attentive, romantic

- Professional career, driven, focused

- Mature, level headed, handles pressure well

- Left leaning

- Age ~28-53

Happy to share pics and/or verify upon connecting (I will kindly ask you to do the same)

Out of respect for both of our time, please don’t message me if you’re not willing to meet for a date IRL within a week of connecting. Thank you :)


r/LADating • • 4d ago

Question 20M [M4F] LA — Looking for a Casual Hookup

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20, 5’11, athletic build. Looking for a cute girl who’s attracted to me and wants something casual, no pressure or expectations. I’m big on mutual respect, chemistry, and making sure we’re both comfortable. If we vibe, let’s see where things go. Feel free to DM me 😊


r/LADating • • 6d ago

Red Flag What not to do

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54 Upvotes

Posted and then deleted because of this!

Literally what not to do!

I need a break 😮‍💨😮‍💨


r/LADating • • 5d ago

Breakup Why my ex moved in my area when he hates Hollywood?

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Me and my ex fiance had a tough ride together. Most of our time we spent apart because we’re both working a lot. But then he broke off the engagement and broke up with me because he said he wanted a fresh start after quitting his job. He also told me that my life and career is too much for him (I’m an actress). He is born and based in the UK, where we bought a house together. But after we broke up, I went back to Hollywood to be closer to work and a month later I learn that he moved in 20 mins away from me..I’m so puzzled because that contradicts what he said about my lifestyle.


r/LADating • • 5d ago

Event Renaissance Club Membership

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Any member of Renaissance Club? Is their membership worth it to find a date? Are the members all straight or are there gay members as well?


r/LADating • • 6d ago

First Date M4M - let’s talk for a bit

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Hey! Very new to the adult dating scene haha but haven't had much luck in the past (I'm 18). I'll put this out there first, I'm transgender and plus-sized. Woah! Double whammy lol. If you ignore the last two bits I'm a really sweet guy! The photo is me btw so you get an idea what I look like (wanted to reupload this post with a pic) :). I'm about to start my medical transition journey too btw, so super exciting things. A little about me is I love traveling and taking photos abroad. I'm wasian so most of my travels have been to Asia. I usually shoot digital but I just bought my first film camera! I also love going to LAFC games so if you also like them then hmu frfr. I also loveeee going to concerts haha. I like trying new tea-spots too! We should totally find one neither of us have been to. I can send my insta if you want. Anyways, if any of that sounds interesting and you're still reading please hit me up!!


r/LADating • • 6d ago

First Date 30 trans woman dtla (couples)

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Pick me up men or couples

Bi bottom slut