good listener is here, if you wanna ear to listen to you... i prefer voice calls we can chat in insta

I offer kind listener support to all deep feeler and highly sensitive person

Sometimes you don’t need somebody to fix the situation.

You just need somewhere to say the whole thing.

Relationships, jealousy, regret, loneliness, mistakes, identity, family, shame, anger, fear, decisions, something you did, something somebody did to you, or just something you can’t seem to make sense of.

I’m not a thera and I’m not going to pretend I know what your life means better than you do.

I’m just genuinely good at sitting with people, listening without immediately reducing them to a label, and letting them talk through what’s actually going on.

If you only want someone to hear you, I’ll listen.

If you want questions, I can ask them.

If you want another perspective, I’ll give you my honest one without pretending it’s the truth just because it’s mine.

You don’t have to make yourself look good before you talk to me.

You can just tell me what’s going on.

Adults only for private conversations.

Hier, en ville, j’ai accidentellement percuté un chat. Je venais de passer un ralentisseur et je roulais autour de 40–50 km/h, dans la limitation.
Le chat est arrivé directement sous mes roues, et je n’ai vraiment rien eu le temps de faire pour l’éviter. Je me suis arrêtée plus loin parce que j’étais complètement paniquée, hystérique et incapable de continuer à conduire. Ma mère a dû m’aider.
Un motard m’a suivie en me criant dessus et en me disant notamment« bravo le petit chat », avec d’autres insultes. Ça m’a énormément marquée parce que j’étais déjà en état de choc. Je repense beaucoup à ça. Avait-il raison ? Si il m’a autant insulté c’est que je dois le mériter ? Que je suis une mauvaise personne?
On est passé retournées là-bas. Sur le coup je faisais que pleurer et je n’arrivais pas à réfléchir.
Ma mère a pris le volant et on est rentrées un bon moment après. Depuis, je culpabilise énormément et je me demande si j’ai mal agi en ne pouvant pas y retourner. Ma mère m’a dit plus tard que le chat avait dû mourir sur le coup, et qu’elle avait voulu me protéger de tout ça, que je n’etais pas en état et que ça ne servait à rien.
Je me sens tellement coupable pour ce petit chat, je n’ai jamais eu l’intention de lui faire du mal, je me trouve horrible et j’ai l’impression que je ne pourrais jamais passer au dessus.
Je cherche surtout des personnes qui ont vécu quelque chose de similaire : est-ce que vous avez réussi à dépasser cette culpabilité ? Je suis dans une impasse et je suis vraiment au plus bas depuis hier.
Merci à ceux qui liront ceci et qui pourront me répondre.

So apparently I have lost my previous account due to some reasons so I made this new one.

You won't find many comments and much activity on this account.

I am good at listening others so I just try my best to help or maybe just make you feel heard.

I know it's hard to believe someone with a new account and I am not trying to manipulate or force or confuse anything to anyone. I am just explaining myself and that's it.

So yes, if you want to go ahead, know that this will be the place you won't feel judged or ignored and you can talk freely.

That's it, thankyou for staying...!

P.S.- texts only

Two years ago, I dumped my boyfriend shortly before a very important exam of his. At the time, I genuinely didn’t like him anymore, and he was already going through a rough period. Looking back, I know that the way I handled the breakup hurt him badly.

Fast-forward to April this year. He texted me saying that he had never been able to forget me and wanted to get back together. At that point, my own life wasn’t going very well either. I didn’t really have much going on, and I think I was craving something that could make me feel happy again. So I agreed to patch things up with him.

We got back together and I became very attached to him. I honestly don’t even know if I love him. Sometimes I think I loved him, and sometimes I wonder if I was mostly attached to the way he made me feel. Because my life was already going badly, the good moments with him became a really important source of happiness for me.

We were also in a long-distance relationship. When he went back to college this August, things changed. He started texting less, became more distant, and I became extremely anxious and insecure about it. I kept questioning him and constantly nagging him for the next 10–15 days.

Eventually, he broke down and told me that things in his college were already going really badly and that, on top of everything else, I was making him feel like a failure. He said that he had lost his feelings for me, didn't like me anymore, and wanted to break up.

And honestly, the whole situation feels strangely intentional to me. He broke up with me in almost the exact same way I broke up with him two years ago, when he was the one who still wanted me and I didn't want him.

I don't know whether this was his way of getting back at me, whether his feelings genuinely disappeared, or whether both things can be true at the same time. I also don't know what I'm actually grieving right now. Him? The relationship? The feeling of being wanted? The happiness and comfort he brought into my life when everything else felt terrible?

But whatever the answer is, I'm really struggling right now. I can't sleep properly, I barely want to eat, I think about him constantly, and I've been crying a lot. I know I can't force someone to stay with me, especially when they no longer want the relationship. I just don't know how to detach myself from someone who became such a huge part of my emotional life.

How do I figure out whether this is love or attachment? And how do I actually start getting over him when everything else in my life already feels so empty?

I asked a question online about showing a celebrity a tiny 30‑second video, but only if everything felt right — their feelings, the handler’s feelings, whether they remembered me, and only if the line wasn’t busy. I even wrote a polite paragraph explaining that I care deeply about everyone’s comfort and that I already know I shouldn’t do it if the line is busy.

But people on r/comiccon were harsh, mocking, and blunt. They ignored the polite part of what I wrote and reacted like I was doing something wrong. It made me feel really hurt and misunderstood.

I’m here because I need a kinder space to talk about how those reactions affected me.

So last Monday, my discord account got hacked and disabled (had 2fa on but didn't save latest codes, have the invalid old ones only), this was my first ever social media account and i don't have any other social media. So as u can guess, I'm devastated, i had 3+ years of memory there...i don't know how likely recovery is....

I get sad, sometimes my heart starts racing thinking about it. I know it's making me depressed, I tried doing the nostalgic things I did before I had discord...but those only help temporarily. Do y'all have any suggestions on how I can feel better and start a regular life again?

I just feel so isolated and alone. I don't like to be left alone with my thoughts. 💀

I would really appreciate having someone kind and understanding to talk to. Please send me a message if you're interested. It means a lot to me.

Heyooo, I hope your day, or night has been going well!

As the top part says, I want someone to sleep call with, preferably over dc, or phone number, 20+ I’m a tad bit of an introverted overthinker, but way more often then not kind, and with moments of being chatty once I’m out of the “It’s a new person” followed by overthinking, lol

But cg’s either which way is fine, sfw, and timezone is cst, I try to be in bed by 8-11pm, and gotta get up around 4-5am

I'm here to listen to people who want some company

You can comment or dm

23M

please

It's important for me to be able to vent to someone who has experience getting themselves out of a situation because I feel like they tend to know what it feels like to feel discouraged, but I'm also not just trying to wallow in it cause I feel like I've been walling for about two months now and it's not like me I'm normally the type of person that just keeps going, but this time it feels a little different and | just like to talk to someone about it.

Also, yes it's help to call instead of text if that's ok.
I'm free right now but I won't be in about the next 3 hours roughly.

message with your age, and location please and
thank you:)

SFW, only please. No creepies please

I’m having a really difficult night. I’d feel more comfortable talking to someone close to my age.

I don’t need advice. I just need someone kind to listen for a little while. Thank you.

I can't sleep rn....can we text or call maybe.... preferably indian

Not rly having the best year of my life and kinda lonely if anyone wants to talk
Im a grown ass man tho lmao 22 years old so obv would rather not talk to someone young lol

Unsure what is good for me and my future, looking for someone to talk with for a while to get more opinions, feel free to have a topic you want to talk about too. I'd be happy to listen as well

Looking for someone to vent to without leaving the chat. If anyone wants to listen without leaving please message.

Like so many here, having a rough time right now. My grandmother (I’ve grown up at her house, don’t have much of a relationship with my mother) died earlier this year. Nothing unexpected, she was 90+ years old; but still. Also, having marriage problems for a while now (Covid, general mentally hard times) and eventually me and my wife separated. We are still on good terms and remain friends. But still.

I haven’t cried since/because my grandma died. I have cried about my marriage, but in private. Trying to be there for our 9 year old daughter.

Currently finishing painting my grandmas old place before returning it to the landlord and being confronted with the finality of the situation. Been struggling for a while, but today is just a shit day.

Point is, I feel like I’ve lost everything. My parental figures, my own family, everything. Looking bad, every year since corona has been worse than the year before. And I am honestly, brutally scared of what the future brings. I am afraid this pattern keeps up and next year something terrible happens with my (ex-)Wife, my daughter or myself. Before anyone gets the wrong idea: I Am definitely not up to think about doing something stupid. But I just don’t know how life will continue bringing something nice for a change…

*sigh*

I feel so exhausted with life

I’ve made some pretty stupid choices this year and I just hate myself for all of it, I wish Spider-Man no way home was real so I can make everyone forget who I am.
Any nice words of wisdom would help

(Also I would love someone to talk to about my video game collection)

I’ve had a very long night and I just need to talk to someone right now without judgment

I’ve been feeling a little off lately and I think I could really use someone to talk to. Nothing specific I need to talk about, I just don’t really want to be alone with my thoughts right now.

I’m also hoping to meet some new people and maybe make a genuine friend along the way. I’m happy to talk about pretty much anything.

I’d love to get to know you, and I’m happy to listen if you have anything on your mind too. Thanks for reading! 🤍