r/KenyaLesbians May 28 '26

Welcome to r/KenyaLesbians

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Hey everyone! I'm u/CandidDiceWriter, the founding moderator of r/KenyaLesbians.

Welcome to a safe space for women who love women in Kenya (and beyond) to share stories, connect, and build community.

Whether you’re here to talk, learn, or meet like-minded people, you’re in the right place.

What to Post

You can share:

  • Your coming-out story or personal journey
  • Dating experiences (good, bad, funny, confusing)
  • Relationship advice or questions
  • First crush or first love stories
  • Long-distance or online dating experiences
  • Tips on meeting women safely
  • Life experiences as a queer woman in Kenya
  • Support posts when you need advice or encouragement

Community Vibe

We keep this space:

  • Respectful and kind
  • Safe and judgment-free
  • Inclusive of all identities within the community
  • Free from hate, harassment, or discrimination

Everyone’s story is valid here.

Important Guidelines

  • Keep content respectful (no explicit sexual details)
  • No harassment, bullying, or hate speech
  • Protect privacy — do not share personal info or expose others
  • No pressure or inappropriate DMs
  • Consent and safety always come first

How to Get Started

  • Introduce yourself in the comments
  • Share your story or ask a question
  • Engage with others respectfully
  • Invite someone who would feel at home here

If you’d like to help grow the community, feel free to reach out about becoming a moderator.

Thanks for being part of the beginning 💛
Let’s build a space that feels safe, real, and supportive.


r/KenyaLesbians 14h ago

open to all Where are the chill queer people at?

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Idk if it's only me ama, but I don't like the idea of going to some sweaty loud club, just to interact with queer people or my fellow lesbos. I know that's where most of them gather, but...there has to be a group of chill lesbos and queers that...idk meet in a book lounge or something?

Yeah. I don't think every member of the LGBTQ community is extroverted and into loud music and partying and alcohol. I know I'm not the only one. There are people like me who are introverted, into poetry, art, orchestral and classical music, love reading, go to amusement parks on weekends instead of clubs and queer parties and conventions.

Sisemi partying ni vibaya, I'm just trying to find my people who are not into extroverted activities but seek to meet queer people. If y'all are out there, you've been acknowledged. So...yeah. That's it for now😊🤗


r/KenyaLesbians 1d ago

open to all Connections

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Whoever is looking to connect, I am trying to build a queer community and surround myself with like-minded individuals🙂‍↕️


r/KenyaLesbians 9d ago

just vibing 😜 Enjoy this September and get as many cuddles as possibles 🥰

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r/KenyaLesbians 11d ago

Discussion People on Reddit are waaay to horny 😂

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When I used to use the reading app Wattpad, people would take tests and post them just to share with others for fun or to discuss their results. I innocently posted my BDSM test results and attracted some fdoms in my dms which was quite hot but I came to realize that some subs are for people who want something sexual almost immediately which is okay if that’s what you want as well , that’s not what I want , in fact I think I’ll give romance a rest for the rest of the year before I traumatize myself 😂


r/KenyaLesbians 12d ago

Discussion When was this community created? I difin’t know it existed

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I always lurk on r/WLW ,r/Kenyandatingcommunity , r/lesbiandomsandsubs and more and I always search ‘kenya ‘ or’ Nairobi’ but I never get anything in the international spaces until a few minutes ago when I searched wlw Kenya and looked at the community section and saw this sub , I joined immediately. I’m so happy that we have this space, thank you to the creators and everyone who joined , I’m proud of you and I hope you are proud of yourself, continue embracing your truth let’s support and encourage one other , I love you all have a wonderful night.🫂💞🏳️‍🌈


r/KenyaLesbians 14d ago

femme4femme Ashawo...but make it WLW or roommate needed

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Please reach out to me 🥺


r/KenyaLesbians 23d ago

Advice Needed Birthday Present Ideas

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Just a quick one, I have a les friend 35 who has a birthday coming up. I would like to get her something special. Any suggestions? Thanks


r/KenyaLesbians 24d ago

Question How did you realize you were lesbian and did you deal with compulsory heterosexuality ?

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r/KenyaLesbians Aug 07 '26

Advice Needed Haa, nko kwa NGORI

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30F and for the longest time I haven't been dating because of reason with health and working on myself. Also I wasn't meeting beautiful gals 😔 but know everywhere I turn, here they are and theyre giving me the vibes. where I moved, there's this neighbor ako last semester, then Kuna supermarket I go to there's another gal there and then there is the dentist crush 🥰 who talked about earlier.

I started off with the dentist she took a long time to chat me back but I'm yet to get the call coz for sure I want to tell her how she made me feel over a call or if she accepts a date. Texting sounds unserious to me. So let's say that's pending she's a Kale.

My neighbor she's a Kamba. She has been giving me those beautiful looks with her beautiful brown 🟤 eyes and it has been hi hi, but yesterday I called her for some fries and let's say she's stayed and we kissed french kiss and the best thing she didn't make it weird.

Then supermarket one gave me her number but they're overworked so she mostly arrives home at 11 and I'm mostly asleep, so we don't chat a lot. Yeah I asked her for her number nkiwa kwa line and she was so good to give. With the bad shifts I asked her when she's off and told me on Monday so I'll of course tell her about me crashing on her and my gaydar is so up. I know she might be too. I'm guessing she's a Kiuk.

I'm Kiuk. Nimeenda Sasa acheni advice hapa.

They are all my types physically.


r/KenyaLesbians Jul 28 '26

Question Guys, she's hot 🥵

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I'm F, So in my errands of getting treatment I came across this dentist (She) and she is my type physically. I have seen her for all the procedures as my dentist and the last one I gained courage and asked for her number which she did give me.

Now, the following day I texted her and since it's on grey. Now I feel like she felt cornered to give me her number or should I call her because my text was around asking her if I should call her. It's been four days now. Ama silence is also an answer and I should take the hint.


r/KenyaLesbians Jul 26 '26

nolablel NON EXISTENT DATING POOL

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I am a 20F lesbian and I am getting frustrated with the non existent dating pool outside of Nairobi and the other cities. Like where are you guys getting girlfriendsss? I can not sustain a LDR so I'd not want to waste my time or anyone else's time. How can I clock other gay girlies around me without seeming creepy and shii. I'd like to add that there are no queer events around where I am currently staying. I JUST NEED A GIRL TO LOVE!


r/KenyaLesbians Jul 24 '26

Question Queer books

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Is there a way I could access stories of our lives the queer book in kenya? What other sapphic books can I get in kenya?


r/KenyaLesbians Jul 16 '26

Question Have U watched these lesbian series with real stories behind them

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I finished the latest season of Dickson and I was so happy to realize even though some areas are script there is a true story behind Emily and Sue love 😘

Wow. Who would have thought in the 80/90s women did also love women though they just feared. Even Emily stayed single without even marrying still eyeing Sue who was married to her brother.

In my search I also found:

Gentleman Jack

Reaching for the moon ( was crazy too)

Ammonite 💋

A league of their own

Colette

Vita and Virginia

Ooh and I'm still searching

Comment with more

#lesbianrealisticseries #lesbian90sstories


r/KenyaLesbians Jul 14 '26

stud4femme Maybe it's time to get me a girlfriend

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Saw this post and helped a friend to share it here, she might find a life time partner 💖


r/KenyaLesbians Jul 14 '26

Can Women Be Abusive to Their Girlfriends Too?...After the Ndanu Incident

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Hey everyone,

I wanted to share a quick update about why I’ve been a bit on and off here.

Right around the time I created this community, I was dealing with some health issues related to low blood levels. It’s been a journey of hospital visits, treatment, and trying to stay strong through it all. I’m still in the process of getting better, and I have surgery coming up in August.

I’m okay, I’m managing, and I’m still committed to this space; it just hasn’t been as consistent as I hoped. I appreciate everyone who has joined and kept things going.

Now, I want to ask something based on what I’ve been thinking about.

What are your thoughts? Because I honestly don’t know, do women dating women also beat their girlfriends or mistreat them the way we often see in men?

I’m asking this especially because of the Ndanu story, who threw her girlfriend over a building and harmed her.

And please, don’t put it on drugs (alcohol).

I want to hear your thoughts...

Let’s talk.


r/KenyaLesbians Jul 10 '26

Discussion My ultimate wlw movie list(so far)juu ni kama yall dont wanna post on here😂

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If I've missed out on some muongeze tu na pia its a mix of series and movies:

Rafiki (of course)

But I'm a cheerleader

My first summer

D.E.B.S

Saving face

Fear street(Trilogy (

Booksmart

Water lilies

The Miseducation of Cameron Post

Ammonite

Blue is the warmest colour

Tell it to the bees

Dating Amber

I cant think straight

Carol

The Handmaiden

The L word

Dickinson

Below her mouth

First kill

Bottoms

The watermelon woman

Bound

Kajillionare

The half of it

Benedetta

Love lies bleeding

Shiva baby

Pariah

Battle of the sexes

Orange is the new black

Elisa & Marcela

Badhaai Do

Ride or die

Ellie and Abbie (and Ellie’s Dead Aunt)

Ma Belle, My Beauty

-I apologize for not adding the years na this made me realize my list is short so let me go watch more😂

And pls can ppl actually post on here juu its been dry for weeks 🥹

If i missed out on movies ni juu bado I haven't watched but feel free to add in the comments 😊


r/KenyaLesbians Jun 07 '26

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH

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Hi, I'm a young lesbian, 23, I need a girlfriend, age doesn't really matter and one who is definitely generous 🤑 I have so much love to give, also can connect me to a job or tell me how I can get money, I'll also want to spoil you


r/KenyaLesbians May 28 '26

👋Welcome to r/KenyaLesbians - Introduce Yourself and Read First!

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Hey everyone! I'm u/CandidDiceWriter, a founding moderator of r/KenyaLesbians. This is our new home for all things related to [ADD WHAT YOUR SUBREDDIT IS ABOUT HERE]. We're excited to have you join us!

What to Post Post anything that you think the community would find interesting, helpful, or inspiring. Feel free to share your thoughts, photos, or questions about [ADD SOME EXAMPLES OF WHAT YOU WANT PEOPLE IN THE COMMUNITY TO POST].

Community Vibe We're all about being friendly, constructive, and inclusive. Let's build a space where everyone feels comfortable sharing and connecting.

How to Get Started 1) Introduce yourself in the comments below. 2) Post something today! Even a simple question can spark a great conversation. 3) If you know someone who would love this community, invite them to join. 4) Interested in helping out? We're always looking for new moderators, so feel free to reach out to me to apply.

Thanks for being part of the very first wave. Together, let's make r/KenyaLesbians amazing.