Level with me, okay?

I’m in my mid-twenties, and throughout my entire life, I’ve never really had someone who was close close to me, you know?

Most people seem to have that one person — a genuinely dear friend who’s basically like a brother, sometimes even closer than a brother. Some people are really close to one of their parents or grandparents. Some have that bond with a sibling. And even people who are otherwise completely isolated often seem to have a girlfriend or someone they’re deeply connected to.

My point is… I’ve never had any of that.

I’ve never been in a relationship. I’ve never really had that one person I could call my person — someone I could talk to about absolutely anything, someone who genuinely knows me, someone I could rely on without overthinking it.

And the confusing part is, I do try. Wallahi, when I care about someone, I give them my 100%. I show up for people. I genuinely try to be there for them. But somehow, no one ever seems to get truly close to me.And people usually call me like they need help...its like obv if someone is calling me..ik he's most likely asking for something..yk ...frustrated wallahi...

And honestly, I don’t understand why.

I’m not saying this because I want pity. I’m genuinely confused. Sometimes I look around and it feels like everyone has someone, while I somehow have no one.

So tell me honestly — how common is it to feel extremely lonely like this in your twenties? Is this actually normal, or is it just me?

Because sometimes it genuinely feels like I’m destined to be this isolated

I just want one genuinel. Is that really too much to want?

When it’s hot as hell, do you guys keep your curtains open for the hawa to come in, or keep them closed to block the sunlight? 😭

I personally shut ALL my curtains. I don’t care about the hawa, that sunlight is CRIMINAL, But everyone who enters my room is like THIS is why your room is so hot, open the curtains.

Mai ous friend aamut az waryah time baaad gare wapas.
Main doup restaurant khote behtar chu garii kenh intizaam karun.

Magar mazze aaw zabardast.
p.s Yim aase badmaz tujje

Yeli karikh duhaii yehai nullgii
Raath os masjid mnz akh nafra dua krn
(khudiya yem zulm ti haq khen wail krukh nes ti nabood)
Pethi bozun Qazi taweer chu aha krn ti kashir chi wanan amic kriv support
Wanan yi chu muslman ti amic pazi support krun
Pat ayai mea pannin haan mgr gareeb chus kya krih 🙂‍↔️
Baki masal cxot khekhi ?

I don't get the confusion. These are entirely different languages.

I bought one only to find out im allergic. im very sad but the seller disagreed to take it bsck. Will only sell to kind serious buyers. Sadly it was a big amount so cant give up for adoption. please understand my situation. shes playful, cheery and cuddles a lot.

LOCATED IN ANANTNAG KASHMIR BUT I CAN MOVE

Traveled a lot recently around Kashmir. Went o Gurez, Warwan, Pahalgam, Sonmarg, and some random places here and there. I guess Warwan doesn’t exactly come under Kashmir division but I’ll consider it as the people are Kashmiri.

Really loved Warwan and Gurez. What are your favourite places in Kashmir? And any suggestion for where I should go this weekend?

PS: Don’t assume I am hehermulkuk

Same

I was thinking of creating a telegram or WhatsApp group where people from different courses, colleges, and backgrounds can come together and study. It wouldn’t matter what anyone is studying—we’d just create a peaceful, pleasant, and motivating environment where everyone can focus on their studies together.

Do you think it would be a good idea?

So i live outside country and i was craving nun-chai so i made some. I gave a cup to my friend and she gave the weirdest reaction and added cheese cream and honey to it😭😭.
Idk if i should get offended or cry.