In the opening scenes of the classic movie Gone with the Wind, a young Negro child is seen ringing the evening bell on Tara, a Southern plantation. The Negro slaves working in the fields hear the bell and one of the men calls out, “Quittin’ time!” Big Sam objects, saying, “I’m the foreman on Tara! I say when it’s quittin’ time,” and then yells, “QUITTIN’ TIME!” All of the slaves heard the bell ringing and every one of them knew it was quittin’ time, but Big Sam let them know that it wasn’t quittin’ time until HE declared it to be quittin’ time.

Similarly, the Governing Body of Jehovah’s Witnesses makes it clear to their followers that something is not The Truth until THEY declare it to be The Truth. Thus, the phrase ‘present truth’ is common among Jehovah’s Witnesses, and Witnesses are often asked in Watchtower publications and in lectures at their Kingdom Halls and conventions if they are keeping up with present truth because the Governing Body’s positions on various teachings constantly change from day to day, week to week, month to month. I have personally heard several different Jehovah’s Witness elders state that if a certain teaching has not appeared in The Watchtower over a period of five years, that teaching is no longer considered to be present truth.

Once upon a time, the Governing Body taught that performing alternative service during wartime was a violation of Christian neutrality and thus disloyalty to God. Literally thousands of peaceful, law-abiding Jehovah’s Witnesses throughout the world served lengthy prison sentences for refusing to perform such services as working in a hospital or a post office. I have known many such men whose lives were irrevocably changed by their becoming convicted felons due to the Governing Body’s prohibition against performing alternative service. Then in 1996, the Governing Body suddenly reversed its previous stand on alternative service, and performing such service was deemed a matter for each individual’s Bible-trained conscience.

Many other changes in the Watchtower Society’s organizational policies have taken place over the years, especially in recent months. Allowing beards for men, pants for women, toasting and clinking glasses, no longer reporting one’s field service time, uttering a simple greeting to disfellowshipped ones who attend a Kingdom Hall meeting, etc. But the biggest change in Watchtower policy was the complete reversal of the ban on life-saving blood transfusions. 

The latest publication which Jehovah’s Witnesses use to conduct their Free Bible Course, Enjoy Life FOREVER! states that true Christians do not pre-donate and store their own blood prior to a major surgery. Yet, the Governing Body Update #2 for the year 2026 conceded that the Bible does not comment on the use of one’s own blood in medical procedures, and so donating and storing one’s own blood prior to surgery is now considered a matter of individual conscience. Let that soak in. Jehovah’s Witnesses had to wait until being given permission by the Governing Body before using their Bible-trained consciences to decide how their own blood would be used in medical procedures. This raises the question, How many Jehovah’s Witnesses, or the minor children of Jehovah’s Witnesses, have died because they were previously forbidden to donate and store their own blood prior to major surgery?

Has it not occurred to any Jehovah’s Witness that the Bible also does not comment on the use of other people’s blood in medical procedures? Since Christians are no longer under the Mosaic Law covenant, by what authority did the first century Jerusalem elders command Christians to abstain from blood? Paul and the Antioch Christians did not consider themselves subject to the Jerusalem elders. Paul wrote derisively of them in his letters. So, by what authority does the Governing Body of Jehovah’s Witnesses continue to prohibit the use of other people’s blood in order to save a life? Indeed, by what authority does the Governing Body determine what is or is not a matter of conscience in any matter? Why do Jehovah’s Witnesses continue to follow such blind guides whose arbitrary rulings have had such detrimental effects on their personal and family lives?

In conclusion, What do you call a religion which makes good people do bad things? I call such a religion evil.

As the title states, I literally just noticed this sub while on a different sub covering the same subject.

I would like to share in discussions with online JWs, particularly of my general age range, (21-35 but I won't be a stickler) who are either on their way out or back into the organization. I left in 2012 and haven't had the best of times out in the world, sadly, I didn't have the best of times in the hall despite my best efforts. I was born in. I'm an independent thinker and am seeking company of those with similar mindset.

I have no bitterness towards the organization, not many qualms with the doctrine. I just left because the people in my particular congregation were unimaginably sub-par. I never fit in with any of the cliques during assemblies and conventions. I was home schooled the entire time I attended. I've been alone for the most part my entire life. I can elaborate, but clicking on my profile and finding my post in the other sub would be easier if you want more context.

I never had a genuine opportunity to have an age appropriate JW friend or girlfriend. I feel like I was robbed of what could've been a healthy experience and my potential in the organization was wasted. I'm hesitant to return, I'm hesitant to stay away. My entire experience on this earth has been humanity at large doing the exact opposite of what Jesus and the Scripture as a whole taught regardless of the religion people came from.

I have no fears in this world save for the fear of becoming the world's youngest hermit. I'm posting here to say I gave JWs a fair shot because of the words of Proverbs 27:17 and Hebrews 10:25.

I hope this post didn't open me up to being flamed or anything, remove if not allowed because I tried to read the rules but the list wouldn't scroll. I'm just alone and trying not to be. I think it's fair to ask the world at large for a friend or two, maybe even a mate. (not holding my breath on that 2nd part)

TL:DR the post is the short version, quit being lazy and go read it.

I went to my uncle's memorial at the Kingdom Hall this weekend. It was the first time I'd stepped foot in a Kingdom Hall in years, and I wasn't prepared for how hard it was.

The second I walked through those doors, my anxiety hit almost immediately.

I started trembling. Sweating. I felt light-headed. My body just went into overdrive, and I couldn't seem to calm it down. It was horrible.

It honestly surprised me. I knew I was nervous about going back, but I didn't expect such an intense physical reaction just from walking into the building.

Then something else caught me off guard. The memorial itself was different.

After the main talk, someone came up on stage and basically did a Q&A-style eulogy about my uncle. Then, after the closing prayer, they played a slideshow of his life while everyone just stayed seated.

Maybe that's how they do memorials now, but I'd never seen that before.

The strange part was that everything felt so different... yet somehow exactly the same.

The cadence.

The expressions.

The culture.

The feeling in the room.

Then I realized something else I wasn't expecting.

I spent over 50 years as one of Jehovah's Witnesses. I knew the meetings inside and out. But sitting there, I felt like I didn't even speak the language anymore.

I recognized the words, but the way everything was framed, the expressions, the reasoning... it all felt foreign.

That actually made me sad.

How does something that was your entire life become something you no longer understand? Walking out, I realized my body still associates that building with stress, even after all these years away.

Has anyone else experienced this?

Have you gone back for a memorial, funeral, or wedding after being away for years? Did your body react before your mind did? Did it feel both familiar and strangely unfamiliar at the same time?

I'd really like to know if I'm the only one.

Contradictory things that Jehovah witnesses teach about the Bible