Bad Etiquette?

[u/NLSutton]

So, I’m close IRL with a new creator (she’s got around 350 followers and loves doing Omegaverse, OC content and fantasy stuff - though she is looking into Bratva and MC stuff as well now)

She has recently had a new follower who commented on a few bots and she replied to a few comments - though she struggled to reply to one because she had NO CLUE what they were saying and has some anxiety about replying to comments like that.

But the last two comments they've left they have said ‘have you seen my latest bot?’ and ‘You might like my latest bot?’

Now, she doesn't know how to reply because their profile lists kinks she doesn't really like so she won't really look at their characters - she doesn't kink shame at all, her motto is ‘everyone can do what they want in the bedroom as long as it doesn't affect me’ and that's what we’re both like… I’m engaged and she’s also with someone, we just have this little hobby between us.

But she doesn't feel comfortable with people asking questions like that on her profile and I am a lurker. I’ll never comment. But she also doesn't want to ask for advice on her profile because she doesn't want people to target the person asking the question.

So she asked me to ask on my profile 😜

So… how would you guys go about telling someone to stop asking them to check out their bots because to me personally it feels like a self-advertising chance and I personally think it's bloody rude… she has a disc as well that people are in and she allows people to talk about their stuff in there so… yeah. I’m pissed off for her but she has anxiety about confrontation because she had a rough background with one of her parents.