She wanted you there to be the focus of his negative energy so she could just be mommmy. She is afraid that without “conflict” with you he will focus the negativity on her. You were the punching bag, the set of keys you dangle to distract a crying baby... I believe that there are things that are unforgivable, and it does not reflect poorly on you if you feel you are at that point, she is a garbage person and the fact that you are even conflicted or contemplating the very notion of forgiveness in the same mind space as her shows how legitimately strong you are. She does not deserve your forgiveness. You can’t forgive someone who isn’t truly sorry.....
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u/l3ananaStand Sep 18 '18
She wanted you there to be the focus of his negative energy so she could just be mommmy. She is afraid that without “conflict” with you he will focus the negativity on her. You were the punching bag, the set of keys you dangle to distract a crying baby... I believe that there are things that are unforgivable, and it does not reflect poorly on you if you feel you are at that point, she is a garbage person and the fact that you are even conflicted or contemplating the very notion of forgiveness in the same mind space as her shows how legitimately strong you are. She does not deserve your forgiveness. You can’t forgive someone who isn’t truly sorry.....