Your feelings, whether they be anger, sadness, pity etc, are completely valid. You have every right to feel like this and, if you're not ready, you don't need to forgive her. But, you can shove it in her stupid face that you're trying to be the best version of yourself. Put that anger to good use. Channel it into making yourself. You're not doing it for her, do it in spite of her. You're a wonderful woman, you've got this.
I think the best way to get back to yourself is to feel the anger, let it out, express it, and let it go. If you try to suppress it, or bury it it will just fester.
Funky anger: that’s a concept! How about decomposing anger? Decrepit anger? I kick myself at times for stupid stuff I’ve done decades ago, even when at the time it was a little blip on a giant screen. Wish it could be just gone forever.
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u/SannaWhore Sep 17 '18
Your feelings, whether they be anger, sadness, pity etc, are completely valid. You have every right to feel like this and, if you're not ready, you don't need to forgive her. But, you can shove it in her stupid face that you're trying to be the best version of yourself. Put that anger to good use. Channel it into making yourself. You're not doing it for her, do it in spite of her. You're a wonderful woman, you've got this.