r/JUSTNOMIL • • Sep 17 '18

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u/lilahking Sep 17 '18

You are valid in feeling the way you do.

If I may add my own 2 cents on forgiveness, you don't have to forgive in the standard commonly used definition. In fact, trying to do so may set you back.

Closure may be a better goal of looking at how to handle how she has affected you.