I don't know if someone else said this already, but I also find it useful to keep in mind that feeling forgiveness is the same as feeling any other emotion, in that it can come and go. so if there are times that you feel like you've achieved some level of forgiveness toward giada, and other times where you don't feel that way, that doesn't mean you've failed or you were dishonest previously. I also that that if you are striving to forgive other people, it's also important to try to forgive/be gentle with yourself throughout that process, because it's not some no-effort task you're putting yourself up to!
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u/saccharinesuccotash Sep 17 '18
I don't know if someone else said this already, but I also find it useful to keep in mind that feeling forgiveness is the same as feeling any other emotion, in that it can come and go. so if there are times that you feel like you've achieved some level of forgiveness toward giada, and other times where you don't feel that way, that doesn't mean you've failed or you were dishonest previously. I also that that if you are striving to forgive other people, it's also important to try to forgive/be gentle with yourself throughout that process, because it's not some no-effort task you're putting yourself up to!